How do I get a second erection quick?

i have only started having sex for the first time so I really want to get better for our enjoyment.how much time of sex is good for a girl (the least time)and how do I last longer?please help me out
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Depends on the girl. Some can come very quickly. Some require a lot of foreplay to stand a chance of cumming.

    "how much time of sex is good for a girl (the least time)"

    Assuming we're not talking about a quickie (which some girls will prefer on occasion) When it comes to foreplay, the general rule is that there's no rush and no such thing as too much. You shouldn't feel like you have 5 minutes to get her off with your mouth and fingers before you can have "real" sex. Take your time. Kiss, caress, nibble, flick. If she can come two or even three times before you start the serious work, then great for her.

    When it comes to actual penetrative sex... I've read some statistics that frankly make me sad for the human race. Like the average time is 7 minutes. Now, either that stat is wrong, or it's heavily skewed by all the young inexperienced crappy lovers in the world lasting 30 seconds... or I'm one of the greatest lovers of my generation. And I promise you, that last one isn't true.

    From talking about it with friends of mine, we all seem to last anywhere from 20-60 minutes, and our partners seem quite happy with that. (But they're not going around high-fiving each other either, which leads me to believe they would think that's a normal amount of time as well.)

    How do you last longer? Practice. I find changing positions when I get close to cumming helps me. Some guys like to concentrate on non sexual topics, to delay orgasm. Baseball statistics are a well known favorite there. Wearing a condom helps, as it apparently makes you less sensitive down there, so less prone to cumming too soon.

    • ok,thanks for that it doesn't seem like I'm all that bad then thanks for the stats

    • with all those methods how long do you usually last first round? What kinda attention do you give her when you are recovering a second erection?

    • 30 minutes maybe. And on the 2nd round? Not as much, to be honest. She's usually still quite revved up.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think I read somewhere it takes guys an hour to fully recover. If you learn how to hold it in (my boyfriend stops and gives me attention so he doesn't come too soon) it's not only a better orgasm for you, but she'll be happy about it too. For me I'd prefer 20-30 min, this is usually the time range where I can say I am completely satisfied.

    • when he stops how long does he?what kinda attention does he give?details on that please

    • Maybe like 10 minutes and he'll go down on me or finger me things like that, and then we'll continue.

    • Thank you for being honest I will let you know how things go

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  • To last longer take about 3 viagras. But girls on like to have sex for like 2 minutes

    • im not up for viagras but I want easy to learn methods to last long.2minutes sounds great an easy target