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How do I give Boyfriend the best night ever?

Boyfriend and I haven't been able to see each other often lately, so I was hoping to give him a really special night either Thursday or Friday. So, I'm going to need all the help I can get, without getting too crazy (I'm a shy lover, so nothing too extreme) What should I wear? How can I set the mood? And...sexual tips would help too... What would you guys like to have done for you to make it the best night ever?
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Oh, I should probably mention that I'll be going to his house late at night after work, so that narrows my options down quite a bit...Sorry! I would still like any help that is offered! Also, I work at night, so all day I can go shopping for whatever!
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  • Make it intimate - dinner at your place. If you know his favorite dish and you can cook it, do so. If you can't cook, then maybe order in.

    Mood. Soft lighting can help. Music can also help. Alcohol can help (make sure you know what kind of alcohol he likes if you do have alcohol). Basically make it clear that you're going to f*** him, without having to say it in words.

    Wear something sexy - something you wouldn't normally wear because it's too revealing or whatever. If your boyfriend knows you're wearing it just for him, and that he's seeing something nobody else sees, it can be a major turn on.

    Sex. Depends on what your boyfriend likes really. If you don't know what his fantasies are (or are just not comfortable doing them) - blowjobs are good. Make sure to have whatever supplies you need handy - you don't want to have him run down to store to buy condoms in the middle of all this. Again, soft lighting - but bright enough that he can see your body. We don't like f***ing in the dark, but it's a myth that we want to f*** under bright lights.

    Basically, the whole point is to seduce him. It's unusual for a guy to be seduced in such a manner - usually we have to do it. Doesn't mean we don't want to be.

    • I have a ton of trouble seducing... Usually he gets to me long before I get to him, if that means sense. I'm hoping for a slow and sensual night, but I have to get him to take me seriously first! So he knows I mean I'll do everything for him...

  • Okay, I just read your update. You're going to his house late, so dinner, dancing, and slow seduction are all pretty much out. Plan A just got kicked in the teeth, so let's go with plan B.

    Dress sexy. And I mean flat out sexy. Now for the next part do one of 2 things:

    If he lives alone: Push him down right after he answers the door. Kiss him passionately, and I mean passionate. Grab his **** through his pants and start stroking him right then and there. Then start blowing him.The key here is to do the minimum of undressing, you want as few pauses as possible.

    If he has roommates/parents/etc. - go straight to his room. Then do everything above.

    The key here is to act like you want to f*** him so much that you can't even wait another SECOND for it. After you've done what is said above, proceed to f*** his brains out.

    That is guaranteed to make it a night he'll never forget.

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  • i think ..the most importance thing is that..have confident. confident means sexy.men love sexy girls...shy no sexy...so ..i think your behavior can more confident and Bold with your guy...he must be so happy...hope you have a great night...^_^

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  • maybe some drinking, some weed(though I know many people are against it) some kinky underwear. some relaxing lighting, like dim blue, pink, or yellow.

    some good home cooking.

    flirting through the whole night to set the whole thing up.

    then when you're ready and you think he really wants it, start the teasing. kisses on his neck, touches on his crotch. sit on his lap maybe.

    and I can't advise you further, since I don't know what he's into.

  • Well will you just crawl in bed with him? Or will he wait up for u? Or will he be in bed and then get up when you come home? I don't understand the "What should I wear" question...am I not getting it? I would think...NOTHING! Or are you wishing to try out some lingerie? On the sex part..I would try to help but I need and idea of what he likes...then could build a trend around that...us males are no different that you females..we a very different from one another...

    • He's gonna wait up. We stay up pretty late because, well, it's the only time we have :/ As for what I should wear, I'm asking like, lingerie wise. I'm just asking for guys' opinions on what they like, because I have no clue,and I think it'd take away the romance if I just asked Mike what he prefers...

  • WOW! Thanx for posting more pics of yourself! (frenzy!) Wear? oh boy..r you going out? Nite Club, dancing? Ur smile could set anyone's mood. Sex? oh boy (again) do you know what he likes..that could indicate a "trend line" if you know what I mean?

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