How do I give a good b-job?

I am a little green in the sexual area, and I want to give my boyfriend the best time of his life, so how do I give a good blow/hand job? If there is any other tips that can make me improve, then please :)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • something like this:

    First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

    It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

    Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

    Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

    A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

    When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

    Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

    Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

    Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

    • ...holy sh*t. thumbs up.

    • yes ma'am :p

    • @ianm91

  • Lol this is very AAAWKWARD but I'll try as best I can to give you tips so listen up...I'm not sure how your boyfriend would react but my boyfriend loves when I suck "it" and it's really deep in my mouth - try sucking it gently at first then suck it harder and harder, faster and faster gradually. Also, try uhm licking the tip, in a circular motion around the top of his hard on. For the handjob - make sure your hands are wet/lubricated in some way so you don't mistakely pull the skin on his penis, and move your hand in an upward and downward motion - pretty straight forward how to work that one. To make things interesting you can take your top off while you doing all this, you can 69 it (he licks you while you give him a bj) or you can moan while you blowing him...*blush* have fun

  • There's a lot of tips and tricks out there on the web... I suggest reading up on it, then when your with your boyfriend try a few things out and make sure you ask him to tell you when he particularly likes something. But trust me reading up on it makes a BIG difference... the first time I did it, my boyfriend kept asking if I was sure I've never done that before ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • You want to make it the best here's a suggestion...

    Suck him off in front of a bunch of people. Tell him you don't care if they watch you just need to suck him right now. Tell him how you love to suck HIS beautiful d*** and how you want to be his own personal come slut. When you're doing it ask him if he likes how you suck him. Tell him that you want to make him come in your mouth so you can taste his manhood. Cup the balls. If your mouth gets tired don't underestimate a good jack job. Jack it while the tips in your mouth. Ask him to jack it into your mouth. hmm...oh yeah rub your p*ssy while you do it. Look him in the eyes while you do it. don't forget to work the shaft a little bit too. That's all I got for now...Oh one final thing...road head is overrated and dangerous. Pull into a rest stop to finish the job. Much safer that way.

    Oh one more idea...the next time you go out wear somethign that will attract a lot of guy attention. When the guys notice you start rubbing your man's **** and proceed to get on your knees and blow him right there (if you can w/o getting arrested). Your man will feel like THE MAN! and will remember it for the rest of his life. Don't worry about being thought of as a whore because obviously there is a difference if this is only between the special guy and yourself.

    • wurd

    • The women need to know this. If more women treated their guys this way they wouldn't be having men that strayed. Women say to yourself "do I know how to satisfy my man"?

  • my complaints from my experience are simple:

    1) easy with the teeth, it hurts. I have just had to tell girls to stop and I got dressed and everything cause they were dragging their teeth on it like it was corn on the cob or something.

    2) take your rings off if you are gonna stroke it with your hands while you do it. It pinches and hurts.

    3) don't look like it grosses you out or get freaked out when I cum. If you are that freaked out by it then you just don't have any business doing it in the first place. better yet, if you don't like it in your mouth and are totally against swallowing it under any circumstance, then you need to forget about the notion of ever pleasing a man. When we go down on a girl, where do you girls think all that stuff goes when you is getting wet and sometimes producing all kinds of fluids? IN MY MOUTH and I end up swallowing it. Why cause I like it. If I didn't I would expect to be told that if I am not with the program then don't buy a ticket and take my @$$ home. the key word is enthusiasm.

    Follow these simple rules and you can't go wrong. It's hard to mess up a blowjob babe, really it is.

    • Dude. You totally said everything I wanted to say and everything I think of like it. Best answer. lol

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  • ...and I forgot one other thing. that deep throating thing is something guys have picked up over the years from watching p*rn. there is no way that making yourself gag on any object is even remotely comfortable or pleasurable and no guy should make you do that. it is more of a domination thing that doesn't add any real physical pleasure than they are already getting. I know I wouldn't let a girl ram anything down into my throat that would cause me to gag and I wouldn't expect any girl to do that ever.

  • I once read in a book; Crave it, Concentrate, Continuous movement!

  • Deep throat, then swallow!