How do I give a guy a boner?

is there some way to turn him on in an instant? or does it take a while? any suggestions? are there ways of turnng him on without physical contact.like acting a certain way, wearing something.etc?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This one is a big question! So many answers, so little space. It depends on the guy, but most erections are not "instant." Although you can turn him on instantly, it takes a very short while for blood to rush fully to the area in question.

    How to do it? There is your personality. Attitude, have confidence, sexiness, be provocative, tease him by teasing yourself. Be playful, affectionate, and listen to what he tells you he wants/likes, and pay attention to what he does. If he reacts positively to any small thing you happen to do, do it again!

    There's physical attraction. Wear something sexy, like that little black dress, that low cut shirt, those tight jeans, that Victoria's Secret. Find out what he likes and capitalize on it. There is also physical contact, both direct and indirect. You don't have to grab him there to make him feel something there. Of course, kissing, almost anywhere, can be sensual. Ears, neck, chest, back, abs, waist, and even hands and fingers. Touch his legs, knees, waist, etc.

    Then there is always verbal attraction. Talk to him closely in his ear, very softly in a whisper. Talk dirty, say something sensual, passionate, whatever. Just let him feel your breath on his ear, let him hear your passion.

    Explore! Have fun! Good luck!

    • Omg this helps a lot thank youuuuuuuuu! I sure will do

  • Depends on the guy, really. . . you'd have to know his preferences.

    Like, personally, I like lingerie, boy-shorts. . and I'm not a big fan of makeup.

    I f***ing LOVE attitude. I love a girl who has attitude but isn't a bitch, and I love confidence. Confidence is amazingly sexy in a girl.

    If she can communicate (notice that communication involves actions, body language, and speech all rolled into one), sort of: "I know how JUST how to f*** you, and make you come like a geyser. You are f***ing toast."

    That will get me hard.

    • Oh and when a girl sort of teases me with her body, like drops something & bends over to pick it up. . . the funny thing is I don't know these moves by heart but they still excite me when I see them. And then after the fact I forget what they were. You should find a few girls who know how to work the goods and get them to teach you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Without any physical contact is a little difficult, but you could probably get it from most guys by talking dirty to them.

    With physical contact it's not instant, but pretty damn close. It's kind of fun to watch, especially with guys who are small when soft but big when hard.

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  • why would you want to?

  • A sexy look or clothing would do it for me.

  • You can give me one by dancing in front of me! I love a girl that dances, the way she moves, and then brushes up on me and blows in my ear! The way she shakes her hips and butt!

  • sit on his lap and get his d*** centered in ur butt and he'll get hard...it gets me always