just follow these steps:
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
Good luck
There really isn't any cookie cutting way to give the perfect BJ, read and try many different techniques... I'm sure your boyfriend won't mind letting you have all the practice you want!
Spit or Swallow is a question that is constantly asked... a lot of guys like it when you do, but if you try it and don't like it just tell him you really gets turned on having him do that on some part of your body, Guys are visual so that won't be a big deal.
jlynn151 is really onto something a lot of girls forget, the tongue is really key, but read and practice! Talk to his about what feels great to him. Here is another link for your reading pleasure... link
Most of all have fun!
Lol ok, ok. Well what I do is start kissing him then his neck..slide my toungue down his chest on down the sides..like his hips..then with ur toungue..slide it between his testacles and his penis..glide your toungue up his penis..roll ur toungue around the head (this is great if you have a toungue ring..they don't feel the toungue ring much but this is visual) use ur lips..and put the head in your mout and really fast..slide down..come back up slow moving ur toungue back and forth on his penis..suck (not hard lol) as you go down again. You can also use ur hand..put ur hand at the base of his penis and as ur ur moving ur mouth up..glide your hand up in a twisting motion. Pay attention to his moans or his breathing pace. Make sure to always keep ur jaw relaxed because it will start to hurt afterward..also try a peppermint in ur mouth while ur givin em head..the menthol in the candy gives a tingly sensation. And I've never swallowed..ew..idk y guys like that..but I never have. But guys like it so that a decision ull have to make.
And there ya have it
Wow I just gave directions on givin head haha..I soooo better get Best Answer LMAO
I'm going to have to agree with jlynn here. Essentially what she's outlined sounds perfect to me. As for swallowing or spitting, I don't know how to describe WHY we guys like swallowing better... I think it's a pride thing, spitting says to us you are not enjoying what you did and kinda wrecks the mood, though if you really hate the taste or something just don't go running to the bathroom to wash your mouth out or anything like that. I've had a girlfriend do that, made me feel like a jerk.
Yeah, this sounds about right! =) Also, guys like it when you flick the frenulum (the vein at the base of the head) with your tongue. I don't particularly care to swallow so as an alternative I usually keep my face nearby look him in the eye and smile like the cat that just ate the canary while he cums then I go fetch the towel and clean him up myself. Clean him first, then you. If you do decide to try swallowing, take it under your tongue. Good luck!!!
If you can manage to deep throat try swallowing when you do it...takes some practice but I'm sure he won't mind. Swallowing makes the muscles in the make of your throat move against him (or so I'm told)
I will give you a website that I learned a lot from and hopefully it helps you too... it gives all the tips and tricks that guys like and it is straight from guys. link
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you decide to swallow, then lucky guy. If not, I'd talk about it before hand and just put a towel next to you guys so when he says he's going to come (you'll be able to tell because he'll shudder) you can just grab the towel really quick. And just a personal point of view, I don't get any satisfaction out of cuming over a girls face/other body party, so I don't know why everyone else was mentioning that.
There's no good description that anyone can give you. Get a porn and watch that and then practice. Swallowing or spitting will be up to yourself; I would suggest spitting until you get used to the sensation and then decide if you want to swallow or not.
suck it stroke it, play with it lick it, tease it gobble it, cup those balls then lick them and suck them gently., till he spews a quart of hot creamy jizz in ur new hairdo. Hope this all helps. I got a hardon writing this now I gotta blo my own wad thanks. I wish I could be ur stunt **** fur you to suck on.. haha just kiddin. take care.
stroke it, lick the head, massage his sack, and moan or try making gagging sounds to show him it turns you on making him turned on. and about swallowing, ask him if it pleases him to swallow or if he doesn't mind do whatever you want afterwards
If you really want to impress him tell him you want him to come on your face.
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