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How do I ask if he came inside me?

I've only had sex with one quy , and only three times. so I'm still a bit shy to this subject with him dont really know how to ask.
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  • If you feel uncomfortable with these conversations, you probably shouldn't be sleeping with him. You should be comfortable with him and THEN sleep with him. But as you had sex and didn't wear a condom or pull out (WHAT WERE YOU THINKING) then yes, he came inside you. He should respect you enough to use something. It doesn't matter if it feels better for him, a kid won't feel very good for you! Unless you're okay with this guy being the father of your child, you shouldn't be having unprotected sex with him. And he doesn't sound like he cares very much about you anyway, just saying. You need to stop sleeping with him. Find a nice man who won't be a dummy and will cum on your tummy. (or, ya know, wait until you're comfortable with them).

  • He's had his penis inside of your body. You can ask him anything now! no need to be shy now. And if he's not wearing a condom and is done yes he came inside you. Just ask, sure he won't mind you don't even have to wait till next time he maybe does, although I do recommend it be asked in person so you can better judge his reaction don't over think just ask.

  • You should feel it at least coming running out afterwards, no?
    Usually you realise when a guy comes, because of his orgasmic behaviour.
    Do I take you guys didn't use any protection, because of him asking you to pull it out before?

    • No we do not use any kind of protection what so ever , he didn't have a different behavior than the usual he just told me to stop and he smile and then said to get off

    • Well, not that it is any of my business, but if you are not planning on getting pregnant, this is by far the worst method of "contraception" you can think of. Him not liking condoms is absolutely no excuse. If on the other hand you are planning on a family, I wish you all the best :-)

    • Did you see him cum after you got off?

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  • It should be obvious if he came, there would be cum dripping out after he pulls out.
    He also would have made some grunting or sighing noise as he came.
    You might have felt his D pulsate inside you.
    He may have pumped harder as he came, or ground himself into you as he shot the load.
    His D would be soft after he pulled out of you.
    If you still don't know, just ask him next time, but look for the signs.
    Hopefully you are using protection, as one cum can cause pregnancy.

  • Is he wearing a Condom? is that why you cannot feel the ejaculation?

    • No he doesn't like the way it feels with condoms but i can't tell if he does ejaculate in me or not. BUt he did ask me if he should pull. out or not and before i answered he just told me. to get off and he was done.

    • almost all the women I have tell me they can feel the splash and sometimes they can feel how warm it is at ejaculation all of them said they can feel the contractions before ejaculation especially when they clamp down on my penis. Please tell me your on birth control

    • I am. not on birth control. stupid i know but i kinda wated to. please him

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  • Most of the time you can feel kinda a warm sensation after he cums and he is done. Also during clean up in the bathroom girls usually can tell when wiping themselves.

  • If he was wearing a condom ( I hope he was) then it is easy to tell just by looking at the condom. If he was not wearing one, have him start wearing one before you have sex again.

    When he orgasms you should feel him tighten up and ejaculate. If you are having sex with him, just ask. It s only sex and it is ok to talk about it!

  • I always thought women could feel the semen inside her. i am amazed that some say they can and some say they cannot. Just ask him. if you can let him put his penis inside you why can't you just ask? and if he didn't cum someplace else where else do you think he did it? that is just a strange question all around.

  • Just like you asked us. If you're bold enough to let him put his penis in you, you're entitled to talk with him about the experience.

    • But isn't awkward to have to answer it?

    • Nope. Not at all. One other thing is that most guys will keep thrusting until they finish unless you've made it clear that's not allowed. Then they should (and hopefully will) pull out before they begin ejaculating, and you'll be able to see it happen. You'll probably get messy too because they'll be at the edge when they pull out. You're in charge of whether he's allowed to cum inside your vagina. He's got to obey those limits, and if he doesn't it's a form of rape in my book. A guy also might cum inside you and you won't be able to tell because guys grow up hiding their orgasms and some of us are good at it. If he doesn't make a lot of semen, you might be inseminated without knowing about it. The bottom line is you want to talk it out before he puts any part of himself inside you. Make sure he knows and respects whatever limits you set, and understand that pulling out is both difficult and intensely disappointing for a guy at that point.

  • It really shouldn't be that hard to know if he came inside you. He would have been moaning and pumping really hard at the end, and if he wasn't wearing a condom you'd probably have semen oozing out of your vagina for a little while.

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