How do I help my boyfriend feel better about his size?

My boyfriend is pretty insecure about his penis size. Now he doesn't straight up say he is, in fact he denies he is. But behind every little joke about him being small that he cracks up himself.. I know he actually is insecure about it. He isn't even that small though! And I've said it to him many times. I know people's comments in his past made him this way (we are very open). I just love him so much and want to know what I can do to make him feel more confident.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • The thing is, the only one who can control how he feels or thinks about himself is your boyfriend. It is not for you to control. However, I would instead of making comments directly about his penis, comment more on how he feels and the like. For example, "I love how you feel inside me" or "you're so beautiful" or things like that. Particularly for the first comment you are communicating how you appreciate him, and helping him create a more positive and confident association with himself as a sexual being, in particular with how he is involved with you.

    Most of all, be honest and loving.

    And in the moment, if he says something like "Oh I can't fill a girl up" or something like that, just playful counteract what he says, like, "Babe, you fill me up just fine." Help reassure him in a playful way. It demonstrates he is overthinking, and again, he's doing a good job sexually

  • Blow him frequently. Tell him how much you love his dick. Worship it. Eat his cum a little. Pretend to gag ad others have said. Tell him he's really thick.

    My boyfriend makes me feel good about my flat chest because he sucks on them the entire time we have sex. He doesn't ignore them. He massages them and tells me it feels good. Evem though, I know it would be better if they were big

  • Just continue being the way you are. Let him know that you love ALL of him and that you're satisfied with what he has.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There's nothing you can do about it, unfortunately. How long is it? You're posting this as anonymous, so I won't know who you're talking about. I just want to compare it with my own, since I'm in doubt about my size.

  • you can´t. every guy will want a bigger penis no matter how big it allready is. just show him that you enjoy it, that´s all you can do.

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  • does it work? Size is okay then.

  • Sex or oral sex tell him how big it is and how much fun you have with it

  • What do you think his size is?

  • Scream and pretend to gag... Thats all i got

  • The key thing is training and education; if he knows what he's doing, he will be more confident.

  • Have more sex with him.

  • what is the height? :D

  • have an orgasm. scream talk about how you feel when having sex

  • Dealing with a man like that is exhausting.