How do I tell my boyfriend his penis smells?

I don't mind giving bjs, but my new boyfriend's crotch just smells bad. I am 110% sure he does not have an STD. I think maybe it's a hygiene issue, but I'm not sure how to tell him this? He is circumcised and there's no visible... anything on the outside.
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  • The male genital area can get smelly any time that he exercises, works hard, or moves enough that he gets all sweaty below the belt, so, yes, that could be just about any time!
    The inguinal crease (groin) can be a dark, damp breeding ground for bad bacteria, which makes it just as likely to cause a foul odor as his armpits. And with his penis being in such close proximity to all that bacteria (think about it), hopefully he would want to keep it clean. So, every day, he should use warm water to clean his penis, groin, and testicles. If there is still a smell down there, he should re-soap and rinse the area. Make sure the lather is created in the hands and then use the hands to clean up (rather than putting soap directly on the genitals). After washing and rinsing, he should thoroughly dry the area. He might consider using an absorbent powder after drying to keep things dry for awhile.

  • He needs to wash better and more regularly. Is he uncircumcised?

    • Nope, he's cut

    • Weird most cut guys are super clean!

    • I know, I think it's like a sweat thing because it is hot and he smells when he sweats lol Like it's not even bad, just strong

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  • Its a sour smell isn't? You hit on something with sweat and heat. Sometimes guys who are heavier sweat a lot and the groin area is no exception to this rule. I would simply tell him that he smells and before any sex etc he needs to shower in warm water. Hot water can make it smell because the hot water causes sweating.

  • Well, to be nice about it. Just say "let's get in the shower together."

    • I'm not a germaphobe but I can't shower with other people lol

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  • shoot. i hate this and it's so hard to discuss. maybe you should try showering with him and really lather him up- get him excited about showering and getting sudsy and clean. Then help him apply a penis health creme and he'll be asking for more! lol

  • Ugh this is the absolute worst. Is he showering often? Give him some super lathery soap or even better, shower together lol I’d also recommend you get him a bottle of Man1 Man Oil as it has antibacterial properties that could help your dudes’ junk.

  • Ask him if he spilled something on his dick like old ham salad. When he says no, look perplexed & suggest a better scrubbing technique.

  • Yo lmfao ask him to take a shower with you and wash his body... workers foreplay while you scrubbing his dirty dick

  • Before sex, shower together and give his junk a real good soaping up.

    • That's a legit good idea!! ha

    • CapnHawk and DanBio3 have an idea that really IS pretty good - some cleanliness, some foreplay, some arousal before you get in the saddle. Hard to argue with that (no pun intended). One of the best showers I ever had was when this arm reached from behind me, through my legs, well, you can figure out the rest.

    • @Massageman yeah but she'll need to teach him how to keep it clean or no blowjeis.

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  • generally to tell someone something you open your mouth and attempt to form vocal sounds for the words that you are thinking about. I would start there.

  • I would tell him to wash more. You should be able to tell him bluntly without fear of repercussions.

  • Easy... have a sexy shower with him before sex, then tell him he smells so nice and give him the longest and best blowjob of his life. Positive reinforcement generally works

  • Tell him to shower more

  • Tell him you love giving him bjs but it's something that puts you off, and that a little more cleaning would give him more bjs.

  • suck it then kiss him.

  • There is penis wash selling in medical. It's good for penis hygiene

  • Are you sure he‘s properly circumcised and doesn‘t just have his foreskin pulled back?

    • I'm sure lol

    • Oh ok, then I guess you should kindly talk to him about it and support and reward him when it gets better. If it doesn‘t he should probably go to a doctor, and have it checked.

  • Easy. You look at him very lovingly and say "sweetheart, I love you but your dick smells foul. Go wash."

  • Just tell him politely