First of all, GO SLOW. That having been said, go ahead - my Father always used to say "she'll let you know". I believe in that saying.
You will have to make the first move, remember, be a gentleman, but be a man. There's a big difference to a woman between being a confident MAN and being cocky or bold. A Man never takes what isn't given, but a man knows what to ask with respect for that he wants and needs.
Just be thankful she isn't asking you for "things" yet; wait until you get to be my age - the girls learn enough to start grabbing YOU.
I your having*cough cough* just kinda slide your hands up to the top of her hips. It might seem awkward but if she doesn't give you a "sign" then just ask her if it's all right. Don't be scared or ashamed.
Oh. Ask her if she has a specific way she likes to be touched up her shirt. Some girls like everything, some girls may only like 1 thing. Ask her so there's not a lot of pain or awkwardness. I like it when a guy/girl licks it and kind of bites it to the fine line of pleasure and pain. It is so hot when I do that to or girl/guy.
If she does it for you, you've waited to long.
Next time you are making out, put your hands on her waist, and then slip them down to her hips, bring yours hands slowly up under her top, do this smoothly, running them along her sides, this means she has a chance to protest if she doesn't want to.
If she hasn't stopped you by now, go for it.
Good luck ;)
This sounds about right. I would recommend you take your time, so that she isn't surprised by it. Most girls will either make it obvious they like what you are doing, or will move/block your hands. If you slowly work your hands in that direction, it should be pretty evident by her behaviour/facial expression whether she will be okay with it or not. Good luck!
Wow I was gonna say almost the same thing, cause if she doesn't stop you then you'll know she is fine with it but if she starts to stop then move your hand.
Start kissing her 1st slowly gently then slowly lay back with her so that your face is above hers but your not on top of her and SLOWLY start taking your hand and rubbing her stomach and ever so slightly begin going up this way if she doesn't want you to she has a chance to stop you
Rub her stomach? I don't think I've ever had a guy start that way. I'd probably laugh. The thing with the hips that tolovewithoutyou said is how guys usually do it.
I think emo-muffin just meant touching/caressing the girl's torso and slowly moving his hands upwards. Sort of similar to what tolovewithout you said.
I think you should try and go for the feel, if she doesn't want you to do it she'll stop you or ur hand, and if she doesn't mind well then keep doing it. Lol
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