How do I know if she wants to have sex?

[Anonymous]

what are some signs a girl will show that she wants to have sex with you? me and my girlfriend are both virgins so I have no idea

[sikoo31]

if you're both virgins and you care about virginity, the best thing to do is not look for hints that she wants to, but to talk about it openly with each other.

don't hide how much you want it, express it, but do it without pressuring her into doing it just to please you.

listen to how she feels about it. and if she wants to wait too long for you, compromise, maybe meet in the middle or if you can't agree, just break up, its the best thing to do.

the key here is communication.

talk about it.

[Anonymous]

Generally, female virgins are very anxious about sex, whereas male virgins tend to be raging to GET. IT. ON. ALREDY. Be patient and talk it out with her ... don't just try to push the situation because you're hard and horny. You'll win her over better leading up to it slowly and having good conversations about how you feel about having sex for the first time.

[Asker]

Idk she seems to get pretty physical when we are making out and everything so I feel like she wants it too but I wan to be sure

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, just talk to her so she feels really comfortable about the whole thing. She'll appreciate it.

[Anonymous]

she's your girlfriend, you need to communicate about sex.

[_lightness_]

ask her, duh.