How do I let him know he's too rough?

[Anonymous]

Okay well my boyfriend gets a bit to excited hen he fingers me and it doesn't feel so great. I want to tell him to tone it down a notch and to be more gentle but I'm not sure how to tell him?! Girls, how would you let them know? Guys, how would you prefer a girl to tell you that your being too rough?

[Letsbereal]

I think it;s sexy when a woman tells me how she likes it done. Why don't you grab a hold of his hand and set the pace. Guide him for a while and tell him to go slowly. He'll get the hang of it.

[sal-star]

I have the exact same problem so when you get a good answer tell me x

[Anonymous]

when he's getting rough, tell him slower, softer, gentler

[cristinaboss]

Just tell him...

[Anonymous]

Shove your fingers up his ringer.

[Anonymous]

Just tell him. Pretty simple.