How do men like their balls to be touched?

The man I'm dating said that if I stroke his balls when having sex/ giving head it makes him come quicker - how does that work? What should I do with his balls when giving him a blow job? How do you like your balls to be touched?
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  • To use the oldest phrase in the book, "it depends." Each guy is going to react differently...blablabla

    I find that ball play actually takes some of the sensation away from the shaft and lets shift my focus a bit. It helps me last longer, and it's a WONDERFUL feeling. The literature I've read says that pulling the balls away from the body (gently!) delays ejaculation, since they are drawn in close to the body at orgasm.

    What can you do with them during a BJ?

    Cup the balls (form a cup with your hand, that sensation alone is pleasant,) stroke them (no fingernails,) rub them with your palm in a circular motion, gently and slowly tug on them (they way you might like your nipples pulled - but no twisting,) get them sloppy wet with your tongue, lick them, kiss them, draw them into your mouth and hold them, lick them while they're in your mouth, take them one by one and gently pull them with your mouth and lips (bonus points if you release with the "sluuurp" / "pop" of a sucking noise.)

    Notice how I don't mention "teeth" anywhere. NO TEETH!

    There's even more you can do. Press your breasts into the groin area once in a while. Let your hair fall down over the testicles and brush against them. Go wild about them, tell your man how big and sexy you think they are, and how you can't wait to have a big load from them. Hum on them! You can either put your throat on them or put them in your mouth and hum, it gives a great vibration. Make "mmmm" and "ohhh" sounds as you play with them.

    As for during sex, I wouldn't go out of your way to pay attention to the balls. Certain positions (like cowgirl) will give you better and more natural access for stroking or cupping, and BJ rules apply for 69. However, the balls are not the male equivalent of a clitoris, so don't go f***ing up your rhythm by worrying about the balls too much during intercourse.

  • I love my balls being sucked or gently (very gently) played with between your fingers back and forth. Don't grind them like you are trying to milk a cow. If you are very gentle, it shouldn't make him climax that much faster. Treat them like eggs that you need to keep protected, as they are fragile and sensitive. :)

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  • GENTLY! Stroke, cup, fondle, but don't squeeze or pull.

  • just gently massage them, but why he would want to finish quicker is beyond me, I personally enjoy it more the longer it goes on, x

  • Perhaps you want to ask him; I like mine left alone.

  • I don't like mine touched at all...O:O

  • I like light touching with the fingertips. My balls are really sensitive, so that feels very good. It does make me come quicker during a blow job or sex.

  • rub,lick, & suck em. I don't know if you press them upward it just helps.

  • Gently and soft

  • gently dragging your fingernails over them

  • I don't like my balls to be touched. They are mucho sensitive, and I've never met a girl who understood this very simply fact.

    "Stroke 'em gently."

    "Like this?" (She draws blood.)

    "GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!"

    • What about just gently cupping them when getting head?

    • Except in my experience the guy says "Gently cup them" and the girl hears "They're pizza dough balls. Make me a large pizza."