How do one night stands happen?

[Anonymous]

i don't really want one, but I've always been curious as to how they take place? I assume alcohol is usually involved... stories?

[AnaAmira]

Men like sex. Men seek sex. They happen upon a girl that has daddy issues, self-esteem issues, alcohol/drug issues, or issues with keeping pants on. Sometimes all of the above. After they find this girl, they throw a couple compliments at her that she is naive enough to buy into and then he closes the deal.

If you look like Bruce's avatar pic (see below) or you sweat money, then you can bypass the compliments completely... The shallow girls will throw themselves at you without any effort whatsoever.

[Asker]

It sounds like you don't have a very positive opinion on one night stands...or of people in general.

[AnaAmira]

You are correct. I am not very confident with where our youth is heading. Chivalry is a foreign concept now, and respect is not something people usually get and then have to lose... They are required to earn it first. I disagree with how people devalue themselves. I disagree with the lack of morals displayed on a regular basis. Last but not least, I disagree with the fact that objects get more value than people. So yes, I think some people need direction and I am willing to give it.

[Asker]

You seem very confident in what you believe...why is that? how do you know what you believe in is the universal right that everyone should be in accordance with?

[Anonymous]

these things happen FAR easier than I would have ever thought before and during my seven year relationship broke up.

Yes, all it takes is a bit of drink, a couple of lonely souls and a few moments alone.

[Zinfidel]

Basically, alcohol and college.

Seriously, when you put these two things together, especially at a party, one-night stands happen all the time.

For a personal anecdote: I walked with a girl home from a party because we happen to live in the same direction. We were both (semi) drunk, all I did is say, "Hey, want me to tuck you in tonight?" Bam, one-night stand.

[Bruce]

I almost every instance, alcohol has never been involved in my having a one night stand or having sex with a girl / woman on the first time out...I just happens...nothing particularly strange about it...attraction, sexual desire...curiosity...

Not a really tough thing...

Regards,

Bruce

[AnaAmira]

"I just happen" too funny. Freudian slip? hehe

[Bruce]

I should proof read my work..............

[Asker]

Lol maybe if I tell girls "i just happens" they'll be all over me

[Bruce]

No just say: "It just happens" ...........give me a break you guys........So I will proof read more often. Glad you guys do read critically, I do the same.........Good English and spellig are sadly lacking on this site. Bruce

[Asker]

Lol, true.

[scbigmac07]

If I happen to have a one night stand, then it just sort of happens. We'll talk limitedly get to know each other, nothing too personal. I'll let her know at some point casually that I'm not to big on commitment. So in a way I'm let her know my intentions and that I'm not look for the love of my life. we'll either go to my place or hers... preferably hers.

[l-hedoniste]

Boy looks for sex.

Girl looks for sex.

Boy and Girl meet.

Boy and Girl f*ck.

Boy and Girl part.

The End.

Alcohol may or may not be involved.