How do players learn to be players and playettes to be playettes?

[Duthie]

how to become a playette? Even with a player then,wonder how that would work for me?

[MeuAmor]

Playerettes do exist and they're not sluts lol

A girl doesn't have to have suck d***s for a guys to chase her some people's skill of attracting guys aren't limited to sex.

Anyways I'm not any of that because I don't want to be played so I don't play anyone else. The girls around that do pretty much are more so categorized as "users" not sluts. They take, take, and take from guys but a soon as the guys ask them to give they cut him loose and guys somehow comeback begging for one. I don't know how they learned to do it but I guess I could learn by just watching what they do and I'm sure they have tips. These girls are undeniably pretty, they know how to have stimulating conversations, and they have their own income. They give off the vibe as independent so guys tend to want to chase them.

One of my friends never brings cash on her when she goes out (guy friends/acquaintance included) and when I hang out with her I never have to pay for anything I would be lying if I said I didn't love it. She has ongoing connections to guys that would drop what they're doing to hang out with her and drive her whatever she wanted to go when she didn't have a car, and among other things.

She's a virgin by the way. All she does is flirt, play mind games, and prettyyy much manipulates. She also doesn't dress like a slut contrary to what you may be hearing.

[MeuAmor]

*begging for more

[MeuAmor]

Whoever voted me down can easily tell me why they disagree. I mean that's the point of the comment button otherwise disagreeing is pointless if you have nothing to actually say in relation to what I wrote...just sayin'

[LackusDeltacus]

No such thing as a playette.. They're called sluts. And they usually become this way by dressing in a very provocative way, e.g. Showing a lot of skin/cleavage, short dresses/skirts, etc. And making it VERY clear they're available by flirting with a lot of guys, often making the first move with men instead of waiting for the men to come to them.

Why on earth would you want to become a slut?

[1biglow]

There are playettes out there that aren't really sluts. I know, I've had my heart ripped out by one.

[LackusDeltacus]

A player is the male version of a slut.

[1biglow]

I think players and sluts are different though because they operate with different mentalities and have to do different things than each other to get the sex they want. For definition of playette see my comment on other answer above if you haven't already.

[LackusDeltacus]

Yes, I saw. & This is what I think.

[1biglow]

Alright that's cool if it's your opinion I just see differences. Players to me are manipulating and using women while sluts are not victimizing anybody (unless they're also cheaters).

[MeuAmor]

Lol what?

[LackusDeltacus]

No one at any point said anything confusing. Your questioning "What" is confusing in it's self.

[MeuAmor]

Lol are you mad? The way you went on and on about slut this and slut that seems like you have some type of problem. I wasn't saying what because I was confused more like "are you serious?". I guess because you're from the UK you probably don't get that and it translates different or something.

[LackusDeltacus]

I said the word slut twice. So how on earth I went on about "this slut and that slut" I don't get. But, as for me being from the UK, I just personally know that "What" is not "Are you serious", there's probably still people like you who confuse them, even in the UK.

[MeuAmor]

LOL umm I didn't say you said "this slut or that slut" & I didn't mean literally synonymous I meant as inference from one term to another that's maybe not popular in the UK. Obviously you do actually have some problems and you're mad about something. Stop being offended it's not serious at all. You're little passive-aggressive insult is lame and didn't make any sense just made it seem like you're mad for no reason. Just stop. Wit isn't your strong suit so don't try it with me.

[LackusDeltacus]

I'm not mad about anything.. I actually forgot about this question, but thanks for keeping it going. I'm not trying to insult you, because you aren't worth the effort, and with is my strong suit funnily enough, I'm just not trying to use it now. Leave it now please, I won't check if I get another notification from this.

[MeuAmor]

Actions speak louder than words. I posted a hypothetical and jokingly "What" and you continued on trying to act sassy in every reply and attempted to insult me on your last one ...you obviously felt a certain way so you care. You come back for more and I'll give it to you. & You will be put in your place when that happens, like now, just so you know.

[LackusDeltacus]

Oh, congratulations. You can type over the f***ing internet, put me in my place? try me.. I know where I stand so go f*** yourself. I don't give a sh*t about this answer anymore, so send me a message if you got a problem

[amatuer_zombie]

y do you ask?

[Anonymous]

Girls become playettes by sucking as many penises as their mouths will hold, whereas guys become players by getting their d!cks sucked as much as possible. See the correlation between the two?

[Anonymous]

No such thing as a playette, its called a slut... because as a girl all you have to do is say you want sex and BAM 20 guys are at your feet. A guy on the other hand needs skills and charm

[Duthie]

Tks for setting me straight mr. ? How do players learn their profession and get so many woman? Can I talk to you about this pls?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know how they do it, but mostly their confidence and assertiveness I guess

[1biglow]

Playettes exist they just want a different thing than a player. A player wants sex while a playette has an emotional hole they need filled without bringing anything to a relationship or they want material things. Playettes aren't sluts because they don't sleep with a lot of guys they target a vulnerable guy and latch onto him, slowly sucking the life out of him, and they don't leave until there is no more blood left to suck.

[Cartiphilus]

Some guys just somehow understand what a girl wants to hear and he tells them. They get all starry eyed and spread their legs for him. After he gets what he wants he moves on to the next girl and she's even easier to seduce. They become experts in getting girls to spread their legs for them.