How do I sleep with my boyfriend without it getting sexual?

I want to sleep with him on his bed at his place this weekend but I am afraid that he'll take it the wrong way and get excited about it thinking he's gonna get some. I just want to fall asleep with him without fooling around. How do I achieve this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm not sure how you didn't consider this but how about talking to him about it? Tell him exactly what you want to tell us. Tell him you want to sleep next to him, tell him you just want to be with him when you go to sleep and when you wake up tomorrow. I don't know, tell him you don't want it to be sexual. Explain it to him very clearly. Maybe just tel him you only want to cuddle, or whatever.

    Alot of this relationship stuff isn't hard for the most part. In most relationships if you just talk to your significant other with simple direct open honest conversation, you can solve a lot of these kinds of questions. So that's just it. I'm saying talk to him. If he can't respect you for this then trust me it's better you don't sleep with him this weekend.

    Good luck with this. ;D

    • I'm checking back on a lot of my old answers like I usually do. I wanted to do a follow up to see if what I told you was at all helpful to you. Did my advice help?

  • You could watch a movie on his bed and fall asleep during it

Most Helpful Girls

  • well let him know before hand that you don't want to get sexual to anything...but you also have to play your part because if you get into bed and start kissing and hugging...he could get the idea that you want more...so its a mutual understanding..but honestly guys will always try...but just let him know

  • I sleep every day, because we live together. We are waiting till marriage so we just sleep in the same bed. So just tell him, what you say here.

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  • You could always try Bundling:

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    But in all seriousness you could just talk to him about it and explain the situation to him. If you are both adults it shouldn't be that hard.

  • talk about your feelings.

    ask him “What are you thinking right now?”

    cry

    Rent die hard and rant about how stupid the action is.

    Talk about oscar buzz.

    He won't sleep with you. ever.

    (and also tape his penis to his thigh. just in case)

  • Don't be childish. Either you are open to sexual things or stay out of his bed. We don't know your boyfriends mind. He could awaken in the middle of the night and may think he has more privilege than you think he should have. Then you might be on here telling us how you were awakened by the feeling of a penis entering you and what should you do now. No, use some common sense. It you are not up for sex, you have no bossiness sleeping in his bed.

    • This is so not true!!

  • Separate beds. Better, separate rooms.

  • You must be strong, assertive, and slightly intimidating to him.