How do some guys do it so easily?

how do some guys get laid, or get a fwb, or even get a girlfriend so easily? I am 20 and I have given up at this point being a kissless virgin is really depressing and sad should I get a hooker?
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  • Only in Vegas. In all reality a professional prostitute is a clean woman and you can bust a nut and leave and get it out of the way, much in the same way that many men drop that V-card on sluts (only sans the possibility of STD's), but that still won't help you develop a relationship. That only comes through trial by fire, and inevitably you will get burned a few times along the way, but you'll be stronger for it in the end. Fwb are rare, and generally happen with those who do develop close relationships with a friend and decide to test new grounds (or when the woman is dominant and doesn't want to get close to the guy so she picks out an inexperienced one to get off with, but you gotta be hot for that). Remember, no pain, no gain, so be prepared to take some lumps in the glorious battle that is dating where the opponent is the strongest you've ever faced: yourself.

    • Absolutely brilliant.

  • I learned from a young age, I think I was like 15 when I lost my virginity, and well I had the attitude of if I wanted something I would get it. So the hot chick sitting across the room or the one that walks into a bar and every guy just drools over her, I watch them strike out one after the other saying stupid lines like wow your so beautiful can we date, or something along those lines. Me on the other hand, walk up say hi and never mention her beauty to her, and talk to her, joke around with her, get her number and take her on a date.

    Your not going to get the girl of your dreams if you don't even have the balls to talk to her.

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  • "should I get a hooker?"

    I don't get guys who do that because where's that p**** been? Respect yourself, do something to feel more confident and get out there. you gotta put yourself out there to get something and not give up easily. that's how they do it. I'm a girl and I know how some guys get attention, be confident, get fit, approach girls you like. that's it.

  • Its only sad because your putting it in that category. Hang out with groups that share your interests, a good way to meet someone without it being uncomfortable and you have a bases to work from. Personally I have nothing against people using the service of a prostitute, but I think you could go about it better maybe. Good luck

  • Lol its not that sad, when you go out you probably seem like the friend type or the nice guy, well you gotta stop that be fun, flirtatious, and an asshole=p or find a girl who is nice and likes personality never go for some random slut that will just mess with your virgin mind

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  • they lack standards and a lot of girls are really stupid and fall for any line a guy feeds them

  • Practice makes perfect.

  • Practice, practice, practice.

    You ever had to pick up a new skill? Jump shot? Learning to drive? Play an instrument? EXACTLY the same process: learn, attempt, evaluate, correct.

    Like most skills, you're as good as you decide to be.

  • they have confidence. I know guys who aren't very attractive but have confidence and a good personality and get a lot of girls.. it has a lot to do with your attitude.

  • i'd say for most guys, it's practice, for girls they are born with the ability to get a guy from day one since girls don't have to initiate anything

  • i am to she will come to you one day find out who you are

  • They also get the clap and the herp so easily...

  • No don't get a hooker. You'll regret it. When you find a girl it will be more worth it. Having my first girl be my ex-fiancee was 10x better, both in general and in bed, than the few rebound casual flings I had after we broke up. I realized quickly that wasn't for me, and I suspect if guys got over their petty insecurities and stopped following our soulless culture and asked themselves who they truly were, that many more guys would agree with me than you'd think.

  • charm

  • Practice my man, PRACTICE! The same way you get to Carneige Hall! You should carefully watch the guys who get a lot. And watch a variety of them. Because some are hot, but some are pretty ugly. Some are jackassess, and some are good guys. Fortunately women seem to be much more diverse in what they like than guys. Don't believe me? Take pictures of 10 girls at random and show then to a bunch of guys. For the most part they'll agree on who's the hottest, the second hottest and the third hottest. Now do the same with 10 guys and show a bunch of girls. You'll get a MUCH more varied opinion.

    The punchline is that you CAN get better! Be thankful you weren't born an ugly girl! But you need to watch what works, and learn from it and you NEED TO GET OUT IN FRONT OF GIRLS OFTEN!

  • The confidence thing is just an excuse girls use to basically say "we can mean fifty thousand confusing things by this one word that doesn't make much sense, so lets just say it".

    Guys get one night stands by being hot, cockey and emptying the wallet out buying women drinks.

    Guys get friends with benefits with girls they've developed a close friendship with and decide to test it further.

    • Interesting point. I think immature girls use that word to mean many things. Mature girls, which are more and more rare (as are guys), mean it as a guy who is in touch with his feelings without being a pushover. Most guys are just too afraid to be themselves and rely on pickup artistry and other BS, which as much as they want to think it is, isn't confident at all.

  • confidence and being independent

  • Why would you want to waste something so special on a hooker? You mean nothing to them. It's a waste of time.

    • it is not special no girl wants it

    • It is special! The right girl will come along. You just have to wait.

  • they have big d***s

    • Hahah true...

    • you know this from experiance

    • You wouldn't know this by simple looking or talking to a guy, you would have to be willing to do it in the first place to figure that out...