How do I take my boyfriend's virginity without hurting him emotionally?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is 24, I am 22. I am not a virgin and he is. We are very much in love and he wants to lose his virginity to me but I am scared. Those of you guys with good first time experiences, what made it so amazing? How do I keep from overwhelming him or scaring him? Obviously I would go slow and be gentle.

[RabidRabbit]

The key thing I wish I had had for my first time:

Lube.

A nice meal or outing would be a good idea to help frame the memory, but otherwise, if you're both ready, just go for it.

[cutekid]

My girlfriend took mine recently,all you gotta do is to calm him down,promise him everything will be fine,tell him 2 take it slow and its gonna be an amazing experience,...

[Asker]

Thank you. What's weird is that I seem more scared than him lol How did you feel after you had sex for the first time? Any different?

[cutekid]

I felt that am knw free 4rm being scared of having sex cos b4 I had sex,it took me 2 years 2 gather the guts 2 do it and I nw feel secured..though it was a very nice.. xperience..

[l-hedoniste]

Maybe you should ask him. I was determined to lose it any way possible, and the woman I found rode me like a jockey, which was fine by me.

[foolycooly1001]

..why would sex hurt him?

[Anonymous]

You won't overwhelm or scare him. Men are not wired like that. Take your time and use your skill and make his first "inning" memorable.