How do I tell my boyfriend I'm bisexual?

[NaiiyaPretty]

i think I'm bisexual and I don't know how my boyfriend would feel about it how do you think that I should tell him do you think it would even matter to a guy

[rachiee]

To some guys it does matter. I have a couple of girl friends who are bi and they've dated guys who were turned off by them being bi and wouldn't allow them to talk about it around them. But if your boyfriend likes you for you then you have nothing to worry about. If he can't get over it and it causes a problem in your relationship then he obviously isn't the right guy for you right now. You're young anyways so there's going to be plenty of relationships that will come and go from your life. There's no best way to tell him other than when its just the two of you and it would probably be best if you guys were in a private place in case he takes it the wrong way. There's no perfect way to word it. Just let him know that you think you might be bi and you probably want to explain to him why you think that as well.

[MrVashMan]

You just tell him that you're bisexual. Were you expecting a page-long, complicated answer? He might think it's hot. He might not. But that's how you tell him.

[NaiiyaPretty]

Honestly I don't think it would be that simple we've been together for 2 years he's pretty sensitive about things like this he might think I mean I'm cheating on him with a girl and I just don't want to ruin a wonderful relationship

[MrVashMan]

Are you planning on seeing other girls or anyone else while you're with him? If not, then it really doesn't matter. If your question was "Should I tell him...?" I'd say no. Being straight doesn't mean that you're incapable of being attracted to a member of the same sex. It happens to all of us. I think you really need to think about whether you are actually bisexual or not. If you are, big deal. You're dating one person at a time. It doesn't really make a difference. Don't tell him you're bi.

[MrVashMan]

Let me put it this way. In order to be ACTIVELY bisexual, you'd need to be seeing at least two people (a guy and a girl) at the same time. And any person wanting a serious relationship would not want to date someone who's already seeing someone else.

[cutekid]

Tell him when you are alone with him,.let him love you 4 who you are if he really loves u..

[pandaninja]

threesome :), if that's how you told him I wish my girlfriend were bisexual too!

[alag4]

ask him if he would like a FFM threesome and you can invite your friend to it, if he is OK with you being a bi, he will agree to your request otherwise will turn it down.

for me, I will jump into that offer