How do I tell my girlfriend that she absolutely sucks in bed?

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I mean I don't want to hurt her feelings or anything but how do I tell her how to do things better in a way that won't give her the impression that she sucks?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

like don't go up to her out of the blue and say something but like while you are in the act of whatever you guys are doing make suggestions like "babe maybe try this" or "it really feels good when you do ____"...dont address it as she is doing something wrong or bad but more make suggestions as to what she can do to pleasure you and her. like try to be nice with it and not in an attacking way. like don't tell her she is doing something wrong make a suggestion as to how she can do something, I hope that makes sense to you its kinda hard to explain

niteowlgrl · Accepted Answer

You don't have to tell her she sucks. Tell her that you want to try something new or suggest certain positions. Neither of you are mind readers. To get what you want she has to know. With things like sex you have to talk to your partner. I hope that helps.

chinagirl72 · Accepted Answer

lmfao...reading the title made me laugh ahahahahahahah sh*t.man this is  a hard question I have no idea..jus leave a not or text her it..dont say face..

sikoo31 · Accepted Answer

say "you suck at sucking bitch" no jk.  say: "we need to work on your sex skills. its OK, it'll be fun as long as you're wiling to learn" and use a lot of p*rn to help her create better mental images.

InMyHeart · Answer

you can't tell someone they suck in bed without hurting their feelings. justas as you can't tell someoen they're ugly without making them feel bad.

Anonymous · Answer

instead, why don't you teach her how to do the things you want

if a guy told me I sucked in bed, I'd feel insecure and be a LOT less likely to want to sleep with him again and embarass myself. and no, you can't really put it mildly and say "you're not that good in bed" either. just teach her to do the things you like. if there is something you wish she would do let her know in a sexy manly dominant way and I bet she'll happily do it

Anonymous · Answer

A good teacher has a good student. Maybe you suck? Idiot you're suppose to teach her

Anonymous · Answer

I'll take her and teach her. :D

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