How do you feel if the guy finishes before you during sex?

Hello everyone. I'd like to start this off by saying I'm a virgin, and so I'm pretty clueless about all this. What I basically want to from the ladies is, what is your reaction if the guy finishes too quickly? If it's his first time, and he finishes before you, do you get disappointed? Frustrated? Does it bother you a lot? Does that mean the sex was pointless for you? I'm just really worried that the first time I have it with someone, I'm not gonna be able to last that long.
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Thanks for the answers. I'm still confused as to how sex still feels good for you even if you didn't get to finish before them. But I'm glad to hear that the guy can then continue to try and make the girl get off as well, even after he's finished. =)
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  • It is not unusal to have a guy finish before me and I am perfectly ok with it as long as he will stay around and finish me.

    Guys this is why oral is so important. I've had several bf's who have worked me over orally to the point of me getting off two three times before he penatrates me and with that he can come whenever he pleases.

    Good sex is when both or all in some cases come out of it satisfied. And it is a a lot of fun getting to that point.

    Any guy who has just jumped my bones and left only ever got one shot at it.

    • What is it that you don't understand about getting her off with oral either before you or after you finish. We like it either way and although movies and porn portray us cumming every time the guy does, the real world is not like that. If a guy makes me come before he goes inside my vagina I still enjoy his penis in me while he cums.

    • Yeah, I figured the real world is much different than movies. It's kind of why I asked, because I know it's nothing like that at all. And well, being a virgin, is hard to imagine what oral sex is like. I'd literally have no clue on what to do "down there". =.= Even though the thought of it doesn't gross me out, I just wish I knew what to do and whatnot. My idea is that it's not as simple as sucking on a penis. :s

    • Google it and you will find several very descriptive articles to choose from! It's not all that hard to get the nack of

  • I get very disappointed when the guy finishes before me. Especially if its only been like 5 mins. It does make me feel like the sex was pointless, and it also makes me feel like the guy isn't caring about getting me off in anyway and all he cares about is getting himself off. If you are worried about finishing too quickly your first time, I would suggest that you use a **** ring. I have heard that it will make the guy go longer, and then at the end make him have a big finish.

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  • I don't really care. Sex just feels good regardless. Depends how much teasing went beforehand, but if the guy finishes early, he usually just takes a moment and keeps going. I know that some guys that can't do that (try, you'd be surprised), it doesn't really matter. Don't feel bad about it. Just get the girl off another way so you're both happy, unless she says otherwise.

  • You could still finis her off with your hand or tongue.. I have never had sex- bui it seems like common sense... & am surprised when I hear of guys finish then do nothing - why not finish her anyways?