How do you give a good hand job?

ok I have done everything and only ever wanked a guy once I'm guessing I wasn't the master at it as he put his hand on mine during it and guided me to what he wanted! so I need to know how its done properly thank you!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • HJs are just lame. You should learn how to give him amazing blowjob. Maybe this could help you: First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

    It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

    Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

    Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

    A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

    When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

    Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

    Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

    Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

  • Honestly, just ask him.that's the best way, because its something that you two are engaginlg in together, and it should be enjoyable for the two of you together; I don't know; personally I've only ever wanked a guy once as well; and he was like 'Wow, you know exactly what you're doing.' BUT, I think it depends on the guy.um, I think its important that you try to get into it too; like on a level where you're really enjoying making him feel great, because I think in a way it shows.I dunno.All guys are different.you're probably better off, reading the 'instructional' responses lol, the ones other than mine.

  • From what I have heard/experience guys like it differently. Ask him what he likes and get tips off him. I'm sure he's been doing it a lot himself ;-)

    I find that learning by doing is great. One thing that most guys seem to like is suspense, variation, playing with his balls at the same time, playing with the head and a lot of friction.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I tried giving you a full answer, but the moderator removed it. Don't know why because I've seen far worse things on this site. All I can say is that guys usually put their hand on the girl's hand to adjust the rhythm to their own preference, which could be fast medium or slow. Try building up to the hand job with some sexy foreplay and it will be more successful

  • Put your fingers around his penis ,gently slide them up and down till nice and hard. Then put the other hand around the knob of the penis as well. Gently twist up and down with both hands,one hand twisting one way and the other hand twisting the other .Over the hole length of the penis it is up to you how fast ,I like slow but that is just me.

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  • Porn can be educational! Do a search watch and learn.

  • move up and down slowly at first with your hands and just start gradually moving faster and sometimes touch his penis with your breasts and many men like you to swallow but if you are uncomfortable with that open up your shirt and get him to empty on your breasts