How do you lead up to a handjob?

Okay, that sounds weird. Basically, what I'm trying to ask is what are the first steps, or steps leading up to a handjob? Like, with second base, a guy starts groping, that's obvious, but third...? My guy has started 'touching' down there through my pants, but I don't get how to do that in return...help?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just put your hand there and start touching.

    If it's difficult, try touching his chest and his stomach to begin, and go down slowly. Gently press your finger against his penis over his pants, and see if he reacts. He probably will, then touch it with more fingers, gently massaging it. If you're really awkward doing it, start by just touching the head part of his penis before fully grabbing it with your whole hand. (It might hurt him if you grab it fully when he has something like jeans on, so I suggest you just touching the head before undressing him.) After, the zipper (if he has one on his pants) will start to get in the way, so unzip it, and put your fingers through it and continue.

    After, the button will start getting in the way so unbutton his pants... continue... his underwear will bother you soon because it's in your way... so put your hands under his last piece of garment... continue... it will eventually bother you that you can't move your hands around freely in his underwear... so undress him down there completely... continue... touchtouchtouch updownupdownupdown ...and now you're doing it!

    You don't have to do it in one day if you feel weird doing it, it took me 5 make out session to get from over his pants till the actual handjob. Hope you give him an awsome time and good luck!

  • Hahahah my first time was kinda crazy and I had been high because my friends held me down and clam baked me. I had been dating a friends brother and I was a complete goody two shoes.. most I did was make out. we were alone in the basement on a couch and he started to try to work his his hand into my pants as we were making out so I let him and began running my hand up and down his shaft outside of his pants the key is to apply the right amount of pressure some girls don't wanna hurt the guy so they do it so light it sucks. I stopped and undid his pants and began making out with him again as I worked my hand into his boxers one touch and he was hard.. he came on my hand and he never realized I wiped it on his sweatshirt xD. I felt disappointed in my self because I'm such a good girl but not my fault I was high..

  • start by touching his face and neck, then work your way down his chest. also his back and butt. tease him if you are feeling brave by running your fingertips round the top of his pants.

    eventually strip him and grip the penis, just not too hard or it could hurt, to provent chaffing spit in your hand or use lube.

Most Helpful Guy

  • When he touches you, touch him back. Mutual stimulation is really good and distracting. Just watch about chafing him.

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  • The next time he does that, unzip him.