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How do you turn girls on?
ski-stud-mike Xper 3
we all know that guys are very visual and its EASY to turn them on. here's a few examples: - you can wear cleavage - tight pants -short skirt or shorts -when you're cuddling, move so his hand goes on your boob. this will really turn him on, he'll wonder if you meant to do it and stuff. depending on how comfortable you are with him, you can just grab his crotch, or set your hand there during a movie 'by accident' -talk kinda dirty or make sexual innuendos. -talk about your boobs and grab them. say anything. like 'man these boobs are always getting in the way' or something. it's hot. -lift up your shirt until your bra is slightly showing, just to show him how tan or white you are. Anyways, I want ideas like this to turn girls on! what can you do in one/all/any situations? Say if you just met a guy, what would he do during a movie to turn you on? or what could he wear or talk about to really turn you on?
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30 7Boxers. Boxers are the cutest thing.
thats a really good question. I'm curious to know too actually. damn girls can turn guys on so easily, but I feel like there's nothing a guy can do to really really turn a girl on
That's what I'm saying! I hate it! We better get some answers on here.
Im hoping so to!
Look, what turns me on is when a guy just lightly brushes his lips across the base of my neck, or if he's standing next to me and wraps an arm around my waist and then rubs up and down, or if he comes up from behind me and sort of hugs me then stays there and sort of huskily whispers things into my hair near my ear, subtly is the way to go. But take in mind you can't just go up to a girl and do this, you have to actually make them see your a nice funny guy or whatever. Subtly is more.
Aw you can't just come up and do this to a girl? haha.. just kidding. I see that what turns girls on mostly are mainly things you have to do if you are in a relationship.. or dating.. or both really drunk
When you make them feel unique, in a good way! Like, "you have the cutest laugh" or "i love your freckles, their perfect", stupid sh*t like that really gets us going. The other night, my new boo made the cheesiest pick up line in the movie theater. He pointed out he was nervous, but when I asked him why, he said "I don't know". 30 minutes later, he said "Oh, now I remember why I was nervous..." and leaned in to kiss me. It was the hottest thing ever.
It's not that you can't turn us on, it's that we are discrete about it unlike most guys. Plus we can hide it SO much easier.
I agree with all of the girls that said that when a guy treats her right she gets turned on, but there are also physical things that he can do to turn me on...
Like:
1.)slipping his thumb in the waistband of my pants when he has his arm around me.
2.)Nibbling on my ear lobe
3.) playing with my hair.( not the way that guys usually play with girls hair all rough and everything, be nice and affectionate.)
4.) Telling me what he thinks of me (the positive things) or telling me how I affect him when I do certain things is a huge turn on too.
5.) Coming up behind me when I am standing and grabbing my waist and pulling me close and then when not expected push himself a little closer and harder against me.
6.) Foot/calf massages, or massages just in general.
7.) Smell good...if a guy smells good it one of the most powerful memories that girls have.
8.) when making out suck on her lip(guys and girls both like that)
9.) Trace circles lightly on her back
10.) When you want to be romantic lean close so that your lips barely touch her cheek or ear and whisper what you want to say to her is a husky tone.
11.) Don't brag about your "manliness" girls hate that.
12.) If you are dating the girl for a while and she's really attractive and other guys are interested in her be sort of territorial or protective, she will be greatful especially if the other guy is a creeper and likes to think of herself as yours.
13.) Personally, whenever my boyfriend talks to me about how much he cares for me and uses possesive phrases in front of one of my 'nicknames' like "My sweetheart" that really works too.
I hope that I helped :)
Ahhh #'s 4, 5, 8,10, 11, 12, 13!!!! totally agree!! :D
"Telling me what he thinks of me (the positive things)" when I read the positive things part I thought well obviously he's not going to say "i think you're a dumb bitch" LOL
alwayyss when a guy touches my boobs. never start rough or aggressive unless she brings it on. I think its the best to just be cuddling and then he'll start lightly touching me, it always ends in really good sex
What turn's me on is when he talk's in a husky tone and touches me and be's kinda ruff it's soooooooooooooooo hot
It's kind of dissapointing being a girl for this reason! I find it hard for myself to be sexually turned on, though, for a small time, when me and my boyfriend are just cuddling on the bed or whatever and he pulls up my shirt and massages my stomach and kisses it and stuff, it's enjoyable, or I find the outer part of my thighs to be pretty sensetive in the right circumstances. More generally, I love it when my boyfriend will start rubbing and massaging various parts of my body when we're making out, or slowly spread away from kissing my mouth to kissing my neck and stuff because girls love it when their guy makes them feel good about their body. Apart from all this though, when you're first starting say, going out on a date, if the girl's really into you, she'll want more to make YOU turned on, do don't be afraid to show it when you are (whether this is stretching out and spreading your legs a bit, or something simply like contentedly sighing when you're around her.) Hope I helped!
well personally what turns me on is...
-when my boyfriend comes and grabs my waist, from behind and then just kinda pulls me close, (that makes me wanna turn round and make out with him)
-when he lets me sit on his knee and we watch a film and reenact the kissing scenes (fun)
as for the physical things like what he wears I like it when he...
-when I go round to his flat and he opens the door in his boxers (at about 11 am, lol)
hmmm...well with me? I like...
1.when he runs his hand on the inside of my thigh when we are sitting on a couch together kissing...
2.hmm...i also like to sit across his waist so he can put his hands on my ass..so he can feel..or grab and slap if he wants...i love it lol
3.i let him move his hands all over...it works for both of us..
4.i love..the whole kissing her neck stuff...
5.grabbing my waist and pulling me in closer to him is great...shows he really likes you and what's you hold u...
6.one day my boyfriend and I were kidding around and we were alone..obviously...lol
and he was being all flirty with me so.i teased him a little bit and tried to walk on by him and into the kitchen to get a drink...he picked me up over his shoulder and gave me a really hard slap on the ass..that was great for me plus he said he likes the screams...
so..basically the whole dominant thing..
1.) when he grabs me, I like a guy who's dominant
2.) he's persistent with his kisses and strokes me in the right places
3.) likes to lift my clothes off, and strokes me still, that's hot
4.) tells me I'm beautiful and he means it
5.) eye contact and continually gazing at me turns me on especially if we're really close and touching ...
that's what my boyfriend does to turn me on
This is all bs. I had a baby sitter female look under the covers at me when I was sleeping. I used to go to a camp and the girls would try to peak in the guys tent when they were sleeping. Try wearing a towel with nothing on underneath. Pretend to fall sleep and before you know it the girl your with will be taking a peak under the towel. Maybe do a little more. Sorry to give it away ladies but keep it real.
Hahaaha, BEST answer out of all the others on here! (and I'm not being sarcastic haha) girls are pervs too sometimes.
Actually, no
Not all of them!!
I'm A Total Perv. I'm The One Who Gets Carried way With Things. So, I Guess It Depends On The Girl.
SURPRSIE ATTACKS, just kidding, well sorta
everything for me is so much better when its a surprise
like when he just comes up behind you and picks you up and spins u, then faces you toward him and kisses u.
aww that's so sweet!
ya it happened once, that's it
and I kno you guys like to stare at boobs but it makes me melt when a guy stares right into my eyes and says somethign like how pretty they are or something, ya kinda stupid but it works. it makes me blush and look away, but it works.
if a guy has hot abs er something then ya, that's a visual thign that turns me on
ummmmm girls truthfully don't get turned on as easily, soooo ya sorry I guess it kinda sucks 4 u
sorry I couldn't come up with anything good.