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How does a girl masturbate?!

I know I'll probably be mocked for this but yeah...I need tips. And whenever I google it all I see is "SHOVE A SHOWER HEAD UP your VAGINA!" and yeah...Sometimes I rub the ~area~ and it feels good and stuff but I mean I've never shoved my finger up my choochie. My problem is it's hard for me to get a ~girl boner~ lol :x. Because I can't take p*rn seriously and yeah. I know that if I were in the moment kissing a guy and stuff I'd def. get a girl boner but that does not seem likely in my near future haha. I hear people talk about how masturbating is just a stress reliever AND I NEED SOMETHIN' HERE!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Haha okay well masturbating will definitely help the stress! Lol well I know I'm a guy but hopefully I can help out. My advice is to just set some time aside for yourself if that's possible at all, and just get really into the moment. You shouldn't necessarily have to stick anything inside to have an orgasm so rubbing is good. Just try and imagine something that turns you on and keep rubbing your clit, try to find whatever feels the best and keep doing it. Hopefully you'll be able to get some stress relief! haha

  • Check out these websites (they're sex ed sites, not p*rn):

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    • this is really helpful! thanks!

    • Glad to be of service

Most Helpful Girls

  • I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM UNTIL LAST WEEK! NO WAY!

    this is awesome! I finally got sick of feeling around and pretty much feeling NOTHING so, I mussied up the courage to try to watch p*rn. I totally agree, it's disgusting (for the most part)... so I tried to look at the kind that maybe would give me info. I went to xnxx.com and watched things on female ejactulation. It worked... both orgasming and the former.. uhm anyway ya! It works but you have to get adventurous.

  • One thing that a lot of girls don't know, is it has mostly to do with your mind. if you roleplay in your head, or pretend that you are having sex. and don't ever feel weird or get off that thought, it will start you over from the beginning. watch a p*rno tape and imagine its you.

    Anything to get your mind really into it. it could take up to 15 min if you don't know. rub your clit, not too soft, but not too hard.

    just my experience. :)

  • lol omfg- "girl boner" I can't even.

    But still, yes, rub yourself and just start off gently and get into the mood. You have to totally relax mind and body and you'll get into it and you can increase the pace until you come. TOTAL stress reliever for sure.

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  • Porn is more towards guys anyway, try erotica (porn written in words essentially, its more towards women). start by setting the mood, light candles, wear some comfy clothes (or none), and think about boys (or girls) you like.

  • well I use the showerhead ...no I don't shove it up my crotch ...i have one of the showerheads where you turn it nd it comes out harder the more you turn it nd I just rub it in circular motions on my clit ! it feels so good (:

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