The hymen really is a myth. It doesn't signal virginity, most girls lose their hymen at a young age because of sports or other physical activity. So virginity really is a mental thing. You need to decide what losing you virginity means for you. Traditionally virginity is defined as never having had a penis in your vagina so in that case you are no longer a virgin. That being said i had sex a couple of times with my girlfriend but because of vaginismus it was never longer then a minute or so and painfull as hell for her. And i consider myself to be pretty much a virgin. It really is what you make of it. And the only thing your future husband will know about your virginity is what you tell him. So you could just ly to him. He would probably never find out. A lie is nothing to start a relationship on though so i wouldn't remcommend you to do that.
No one can know whether or not you've had penetrative sex in your vagina or not. Not even a gynecologist could say for sure. The hymen doesn't "pop" it stretches and then because it's elastic it resumes its previous position. In some cases it might slightly tear, but that can happen as a result of physical activity like sports. So it really doesn't make any logical sense to place all this emphasis on what someone else can "tell" about your vagina.
He might not even know it. If you don't have sex till then you will be tight. And when you lose your virginity you don't have to bleed. So if you're tight enough , your husband will think you are a virgin. If you say you are, and that you just didn't bleed. Otherwise he will just think you're tight. However if you do have a lot of sex until then you will have losen up a little bit. That's all I know. Correct me if I'm wrong. (Literally I want to know what's actually going on, lol) :)
Even a lot of sex won't stretch out a vagina. The loosening of the vagina after a lot of sex is only a product of you getting more comfortable with having sex and relaxing more. That will relax you pelvic floor muscles and make your vagina looser. Other then that "tightness" of a vagina is purely genetic. What you can do to tighten up the vagina again is to train the pelvic floor muscles and to tighten them during sex.
@AHellaNo ook ;)
He won't know but I don't think its something you should lie about. Not a good idea to start a relationship based on a lie.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!An intact Hymen is the usual sign of virginity. However...
.. you can break it by:
playing sports.
riding a bike
running
stretching
So there's no 100% way to know.
"That moment when you get de-virginized by a bike. LOL"
Yeap, if he is conservative , it may be a problem.
if your hymen is intact, he won´t know. most guys wouldn´t be able to tell, even if it was damaged xD
He will know because you'll enjoy it immediately. Having sex with virgins for some men is coveted. My own preferences is with someone who is a giver and experience.
Depends on your cultures & customs as well.
Worse case scenario you can always claim that you lost it against your will. Which is probably very bad karma.
If only his head went in you still have your cherry.
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