Some girls are just born that way, just like any other body part variation.
But the way a tighter vagina becomes a looser vagina is via TRAUMA, meaning if it is stretched and torn due to the insertion of large objects: huge toys, hair spray cans, fists, etc., or though childbirth.
As many women can tell you, childbirth can vary quite a lot. Women who have had several children will often say that one was particularly difficult or particularly easy compared to the rest, so it's not like every birth is the same experience. All create *some* trauma to the vagina, but minor trauma will generally not cause too much permanent damage, while more major trauma, and especially multiple childbirths, can.
My own personal experiences:
One woman I dated had 3 children via natural childbirth. She *was* a bit looser than the average girl who hadn't given birth, enough that I could tell, but not nearly enough to be any kind of a problem. Sex with her was great.
Another woman was 21 or 22, no kids, and had a HUGE vagina. It was a one-night-stand kind of thing, and as we were making out, I reached down to rub her, and she kind of shifted her hips and suddenly I have 3 fingers in her, with plenty of room left over. Now, I've been with 30+ women, and no other woman was anywhere close to this. I tried to have sex with her, but between the condom and her size, I could barely feel anything, even at extreme angles. I eventually fisted her, with her encouragement (I'd never done that before, and was curious), and it was NOT a struggle. I have pretty huge hands, too. A typical girl can take 2 fingers with maybe a hint of pain at first, and most can work up to 3 or even 4, but 4 is always FULL.
I only saw her that one time, so I didn't get her history, but this clearly wasn't trauma, it was just how she was built. IMO, this girl needs to date Sean Michaels or some other huge p*rn star. Even above-average guys just aren't big enough; she needed a Top 0.1% type guy.
lol that's quite a story...
thats crazy!
Yeah, I was pretty surprised myself, I must say. I'm glad I had my face buried in her hair/neck when that happened; I'm sure my facial expression would not have made her happy.
A vagina is like a rubber band. Sure you take a brand new rubber band and you can stretch it and it comes back, but eventually it wears out and doesn't stretch back as far. People often think if a woman has sex with lots of people it will make her loose. That's not actually true, what's the difference between a woman having sex with 10 men one time, or one man 10 times? I think some women are just naturally looser, and other women have loosened themselves up by either using large toys/objects, or having regular sex with a large penis.
If you stretch elastic a great deal, over time, it fatigues and no longer snaps back entirely. If a women goes through multiple births. Their vaginal muscles fatigue and no longer fully contract. In addition, aging fatigues vaginal muscle. Whether or not women have given birth, as they grow older, they may complain of looseness. Today, many woman delay childbearing until after 30, and some have children after 40. Combine the rigors of older childbearing with the effects of aging on the vaginal muscles, and many women complain of looseness. Women who give birth after around 30 may notice persistent looseness after delivering only one child. Individual differences account for the fact that birth—and age—related looseness happens to some women and not others.
Here's a quick fix for vaginal looseness. Have intercourse in the man-on-top position. Once he inserts, he lifts himself up and the woman closes her legs. Her thighs squeeze his penis and make her feel tighter. The tightening approach most often recommended by sex therapists is Kegel exercises. Kegels, named for the doctor who popularized them, involve contracting the muscles used to interrupt urine flow or squeeze out the last few drops. Kegels do, indeed, tighten the vagina, but they have nothing to do with the vaginal muscles. They strengthen the pelvic floor muscles that surround the vagina, the hands that hold the stuffed sock. Age and childbearing fatigue these muscles. The hands don't grip the sock as tightly and the towel feels loose. Kegels tighten the pelvic floor muscles. The hands squeeze the sock, which clamps down on the towel, and the vagina feels tighter.
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So, yes, technically with enough child births, or age, the vagina can become loose. But, there are things you can do to tighten it up a bit.
This.
I don't understand why people compare a vagina to a rubber band although it's a pretty good analogy or demonstration of how a human vagina can be stretched but a vagina is a muscle so a vagina can easily tighten itself a rubberband CAN NOT!
Most vaginas *dont* go back to exactly as they were before. Generally after one they will be a tiny bit looser, and the more births the looser it will get. So, extreme stretching including childbirth causes looseness.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The only way it can be loose is if you were born with it like that.
I have found that to be more of a myth. then truth. I have never had sex with a woman, and she felt "loose" to me.
I think its something a woman might be born with.
I don't think it can, that might be a myth
A vagina doesn't "stretch" out during sex. That's a myth.
IT can be "stretched" a little during birth, but it goes back to 95-100% normal.
What you've read is not entirely correct. Lots of sex with large d***s does indeed make a vagina looser.
No, it really doesn't. Unless the penis in question is the size of an AquaNet can...
I don't often disagree with you, Oracle dude, but you're partially wrong on this one. Yours is the PC answer you'll find on the net. The reality is different. It's true that the vagina mostly returns to its normal size, but after repeated play with a larger penis it does make some permanent adaptations. I've seen it firsthand as have plenty of other people.
I am 47 and I have been told I am tighter than a lot of 20 years olds. You can do kegals...it really does work.
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