How important is continual thrusting?

[sota13]

Assuming foreplay and everything are great, when it comes to actual intercourse how important is CONTINUAL thrusting? If I just slide in and pump away, I know it'll all be over and done right away. I can draw things out quite a bit with a lot of starting and stopping, but never continually thrust for more than say a minute at a time. To women, does this end up just being more frustrating than satisfying? Often when I pause to regain some composure, the woman will either keep grinding into me and I'll have to grab her hips to stop her, or she grabs my ass and tries to pull me into her . . . so I can tell she usually wants more action.

[OMGITSMIA]

I personally think I'd been a little aggravated by this; although, it depends.

I like to take it out and put it back in, and rub my guy's head on my clit. If you're just taking it and not going down, or doing something else in between, you're likely causing frustration more than anything. If you have trouble ejaculating too quickly, I would suggest you spend amazing amounts of time going down on her and ensuring that she is getting off-at least once, because it takes way longer than a few minutes for most women to have an orgasm.and research says that 75% of women have NEVER had an orgasm via intercourse alone.

Get a magic wand or something, and get her off that way before you start thrusting. Once you get off, it's pretty much over. And like one other girl said, too much thrusting may make the girl just want you to get it over with and come already. Not good.

[amberview]

It sounds like a lack of communication. If you feel like you are going to come and you don't want to yet, let the woman know. It's kind of a turn on. Continual thrusting actually does not much for me. I have never really come when a guy is just doing this over and over. The woman is probably doing this to take on some of the work or something. Or maybe she is trying to make you come so that she can stop eventually. ha ha. Sometimes when I'm over stimulated and had an orgasm (or even if I didn't), I'm satisfied and want to get my partner to cum. I think the key is communicating what you are feeling and asking for communication during sex. It can be educational (in that you learn what she specifically likes) and fun! I hope that helps.

[amberview]

And after a while, you don't even have to communicate during sex, because you both understand each others' cues.

[30sGal]

It's all about foreplay baby. Get her so worked up that ALL she'll need is a minute to "finish" once you finally get inside. Women are different then men, we need more time, we need more attention to our WHOLE body because usually the "thrusting" alone doesn't do it for us. Use your finger, your mouth, hands until she absolutely can't take it and then get inside and finish her and yourself (trust me, you'll be so turned on by watching her reaction you'll be ready too). Tada!

[lefthand]

Pumping is largely the realm of porn. It's good for hitting the cervix repeatedly but otherwise overrated. Look into CAT (Coital Alignment Techique) or male multiple orgasms. I generally wind up rocking against the clit. I would strongly suggest more oral or manual stimulation for more pleasure for her.

[amberview]

I agree. I'd rather someone not hit my cervex over and over. yeah, I agree with the last part.

[Littletad]

I'd suggest a little moderation.

[face1234]

depends on the woman

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it's kinda frustrating. I know I can lose my orgasm sometimes if the action doesn't continue.