This is always so tough. Guys want you to date without physical attraction, but they also want you to respond to them as if you were physically attracted to them. Being that you haven't seen him in a long time, its hard to tell if you will or won't be attracted. Hearing a guy's voice, taking in his scent, seeing his expressions -- these are easier ways to tell if you're attracted than just reading e-mails.
0 0 0 0For girls sexual attraction usually must be compromised to get a good relationship.
So go for him. It most likely won't change but hopefully an emotional/mental connection will lead to being attracted to him because you love him and not because he's himself.1 1 2 3See the up vote? Guys want to date girls they're attracted to but would prefer the woman they want to grow their attraction.
Lol, attacking people who agree with you? Lejjjj, hahahaha
lol Not attacking. That's a generality for guys. Getting advice from girls who say don't date him won't help her. She's better off hoping attraction will come because she loves him rather than because she likes him.
I think it's extremely important, BUT, I think sexual attraction and physical appearance are two different things.
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its what keeps people faithful and keeps the sexual energy at its peak. I wouldn't ever be in a relationship where there wasn't loads of sexual attraction. Its a wonderful feeling being on either side of this. And if it were missing I'd be searching for it somewhere else.
1 1 0 0But that's if you're missing feeling it on your end, not on her end ... right?
true, I know for sure he's physically attracted to him with the way he acts around me but I'm not to him!
sorry - *physically attracted to me* I meant
I have no faith in a relationship without sexual attraction. I could never bring myself to date a woman with whom there was little(or no) mutual physical attraction.
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1 4If there's no sexual attraction, I think that's called friendship.
2 2 0 1Don't date him.
He wants a girl who's attracted to him, *including sexually*. If that's not you, then don't fake it.
P.S.: It won't change. Worse, when you find one that does turn you on, he'll know, and it'll hurt.0 1 0 0Sexual attraction grows with someone. It can start at 0 and grow to 100 with affection =] If the relationship is good, then it should be just as good over time, but you have to let yourself be open minded about that sort of thing.
0 0 0 1just give it to him, who knows you may enjoy it. you'll at least feel comfortable, which is the most important thing I find
0 0 0 0I know what you are talking about, I've been in this situation a couple of times, you really let a guy down, when you reject him. Given he's into you of course. I think you should give him a chance, but still not feel forced...
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