How long before I can give a handjob?

I'm with my boyfriend for three months now..I'm a virgin and inexperienced with all this stuff..he's also my first boyfriend..I just wanted to know what is an acceptable amount of time b4 I make that move to give my boyfriend a HJ?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I would think you would want to be in a solo relationship with him before you would start around the bases. If you have been solo for 3 or 4 months maybe its time. A hand job can really be done badly an amount to nothing. Although you are a virgin and don't know much about this you will want to learn how to do it before you do it for him the first time. You might want to go to one of the tube sites on the internet and use the keywords "Asian handjob" to see a video of how it is done. I prefer Asian because it is more realistic and less p0rnographic than European or American clips. When it actually comes time to do it bring a sample size of unscented hand lotion with you so that you can use it on him.

  • personally not a fan of the HJ, but I'm sure if he's never gotten with a girl he'd really enjoy it. I know I did my first ever HJ.

    If the mood seems right though, if you guys are alone, and you feel like doing it, and he wants it, than do it. don't over think it.

    • He has...he's 27, I'm 23

    • either way. you obviously want to do it, so just do it. maybe it leads to more, maybe you stick with the HJ. either way, just do what you want and don't worry so much

Most Helpful Girls

  • You should have done it already! You're with him for 3 months, between 18 and 24 and obviously ready for it. why the f*** haven't you done it already? You better give him a blowjob by the way, becuase a handjob is like, well, not very special for a guy (he can do it himself as well you know).

    • I'm not into trying the blowjob but is there anything else I can do beside actual sex and blowjob

    • penetrate him with a strap-on

  • Well you have been with him for three months for me that's long enough but its more about when your ready hj's really are not a big deal. Don't do anything before you are ready.

  • Whenever there is an open opportunity. I would say three months is an acceptable time period.

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  • When you are comfortable with making that move.

    • nice moves. :)

  • You should do it whenever you are ready

  • A handy is kinda like helping someone move across town.There's no better time to lend a hand than right now. Hell, yall shoulda been packing sh*t in boxes last week.

    • lol this was so funny .. thanks :)