How long does actual vaginal penetration last?

In real life, NOT P0RN! For the common couple I mean, I am a virgin and watch p*rn so I don't really know how different real sex is from p0rn can you just tell me how long does actually real intercourse last for a real average normal couple? thanks.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • if it is a couple that fell into a life of routine, it may last the same time all the time.

    But, even in those cases, in "real life" as you put it, it actually depends. Depends on you and if you want to come quickly or not; if you can't come at all, if she has came or not and you're worried about that... etc etc etc. At least, that's what my friends and I have come to conclude.

    Usually, for me, it depends on how excited me and my boyfriend are.

    If we're desperate to come, because we've being tesing each other for a long time, it lasts in the most 10 minutes and its divine for both of us.

    If we're both feeling playful, it can last around one hour, we laugh a lot, we moan a lot, and it is really good for the soul our confidence and our mood and, in the end - for the body too, when we finally decide to let ourselves come.

    But, most times, it is desperate and playful sex at the same time. It can last all between 5 minutes to more than one hour - because I actually get more pleasure from being penetrated than by having my clit touched and those things, so I love vaginaI intercouse and we do it a lot..

    It depends, check other answers!

  • quickest my current boyfriend & I have finished is ~15 minutes. longest has been ~3 hours. average is close to 30-45 minutes. I enjoy it and so does he...quick times and long times both.

    he lasts longer than the other guys I've been with. they usually couldn't go longer than 30 mins. I like my boyfriend now better ;)

    • not including foreplay like the 'experts' tried to say but its nice to see that giving actual real world experience is down voted. and as for the idiot that says there is something wrong with us...perhaps it is he who has something wrong...

    • ps you missed an -i- in your question :P

    • Some guys will downrate your answer because you made them feel insecure and frustrated that they cannot last that long. They are in denial. Here is a thumbs-up from me to even the scales.

  • I guess the average penetration for us lasts between 3-10 minutes usually. I wouldn't have it any other way I'm just not into have my vag tore up for hours on end. A lot of people say theirs lasts 45-hour but I think they are also factoring in foreplay

Most Helpful Guys

  • lol look at the some of the liars on here. No one is going hours. If they are, there's something wrong with the guy or maybe something wrong with the way the girl looks if he can't get off to her.

    kheserthorpe is correct. People are adding foreplay, counting the break time, or are lying. Probably all three. No one is going in and out continuously for hours at a time.

    • yeah I agree with your answer. totally true man.

  • Real life average is apparently around 7 minutes and in real life women would prefer a little over 10. On average.

    There's a wide range of 'normal'.

    • LOL real life average only online do people last for hours

    • Some people do go hours, but it's rare. But they love to answer these questions. QA - masturbate the right way now and build control. Levels, reverse levels, teach yourself to MMO.

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  • Maybe I'm the exception rather than the rule, but I actually last a while. I didn't even finish when I lost my virginity. I usually can last at least 15 min.

  • There is no average. Besides each person and couple being different, it also depends on the situation. I've messed around for 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, 45 minutes, an hour, and sometimes a few hours before.

    It really just depends. Not that it matters anyway. You just do what you can to have fun, not like anyone is sitting around with a stopwatch on hand.

    • so you lasted over hr etc penetration alone? Just wanna make sure I know what you meant.

    • No not just penetration. I mean switching positions and stuff, yeah you can penetrate a girl for a long time if you don't finish before then.

  • Most of the guys I've been with last about 15-30 minutes. The guy I'm with now is more like 30-45 to two hours if he's drunk and we're making it last lol. Anywhere from 30 - an hour is preferable.