How long does it take you to orgasm?

I have been reading how it takes (girls especially) abiut 10-15 to reach there climax and i take like 2-4 minutes. I feel weird about this so girls and guys how long does it normally take you?
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  • Depends a lot. If I am on my own, I can basically choose how long I want it to last. My record in fast-masturbating is about 30 seconds. If I am very horny and haven't gotten off for a week or so I can manage that. However, there have also been "masturbating sessions" where I was literally on it for several hours. When I have a lot of time and I really feel like taking a lot of time for myself, I sometimes watch porn and just masturbate until I almost come. Once I am almost there, I stopp for a few seconds and let myself cool down a bit, then I start masturbating again. I can do this many times in a row and as I said, for up to 3 hours. It's awesome because once I let myself cum, my orgasm is like an earthquake... it's really, really amazing.
    If I have sex with my girlfriend, it usually takes between 10-20 minutes. I don't like sex that is too quick (2 minutes) because that's just sad but I also don't like sex that is too long (>45 min) because it gets boring and a bit awkward after such a long time and my penis start to hurt a bit from all the friction.

  • It varies... I have developed dick control, so if I worry about not being able to cum I can literally last for "hours"... If I worry I'm going to come too soon I'll only last from 3-5 minutes... If I don't think of it at all, I last anywhere from 5 to 30 min... The key is "worrying about the right things"... Needless to say I adjust my thought patterns to the woman I'm with so that I satisfy her without wearing her ragged, unless she likes that sort of thing.
    This being said, I think it's sexy when a woman can cum in 2 to 3 minutes, your type is what I call the "easy cummer" and I find nothing more erotic in a woman!
    The female orgasm is like music to my soul lol... And there is nothing better than giving your partner multiples ;)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Is this alone or with someone? Alone I can do it in literally thirty seconds if I'm in the right mood. Or other times it can take a long time if I'm having sex.

  • when I'm by myself. 10 minutes I think. when I'm with my husband. 2 or 4 minutes like you. then again that's only oral.

  • 5-10 minutes usually if I'm really horny. If I masturbate just because I'm bored, it takes longer than that.

  • It takes me less than 5 minutes usually. I haven't figured out yet how to do it without porn, though.

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  • It takes me literally as long as I want. The longer it takes, the better it is.
    To be fair, maybe like a minimum of 2 - 5 minutes if I try my fastest, but in general I can take from 5 to 35 minutes.

    When you read that it takes 10-15 minutes to climax that may have been with someone else doing it, that usually takes longer, and/or like a full orgasm.

    Anyway,
    Hope this helps.

  • Two to four minutes is akin to the legendary Minutemen. You have to find a way to distract yourself and last until she gets hers, multiple times. If you do, she will literally do ANYTHING you want.

  • With my husband it's 10-15, by myself it's the 2-4 minutes.

  • It kind of depends, as you can delay it and make it drag out longer, of course I've never had sex with anybody so it may change if that happens but as it stands now it can range anywhere from a couple minutes, if I'm very horny, to almost 35-40 minutes if I'm more relaxed. But I average maybe 5-10 minutes.

  • It took me about 12 minutes the last time I got off.

  • Lmao me too! I thought I was the only one. I've developed some ways to make it better, tho so with those "tactics" I last probably around 10 minutes.

  • Depends I have never done it before but it took me 15 mins to get to that point.

  • A couple of minutes, sometimes under a minute

  • depends on how turned on I am but anything from a few minutes to an hour. This also depends on whether I am working for the girl's orgasm or she has already cum and I am just getting off

  • I've been with girls that take 30min minimum, and I've been with girls who can take less than 1 minute if I do things right. You're normal, don't worry about it.

  • depends on a lot of different factors... between 5 minutes and an hour.

  • You're so lucky, ha ha! I haven't had sex yet. Masturbating, I can make it last or I can make it quick.

  • First round around 3 to 5 minutes, Second round 5 to 10 minutes... My girl and I already used to each other so we orgasm right about the same time but she always cums first

  • Girls usually 3-5 minutes when alone, while sex, a bit longer (10-15min). Guys can do it in 3 minutes, too, but we often prolong it up to several hours...

  • I can stretch it out and last at least twenty to twenty-five minutes sometimes, but I'm not an overachiever

  • I would like that. I don't there is nothing wrong

  • 3 minutes sometimes 5

  • Depends how aroused I am. Sometimes it can take up to 15 minutes, other times my boyfriend can get me there in 2-3 minutes.

  • 10 min round 1 30 to45 min round two with no break in between

  • It did happen in a minute but it also didn't happen at all.

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