How long to wait between anal sex sessions?

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Hi. How long should I wait between anal sex sessions to not make the asshole wider and loose?  Also I had blood the first time during anal 2 days ago. Should i see a doctor?

LegateLanius · Accepted Answer

You had an anal tear. Wait a week to see if it heals, then go see your doctor.
The main reason why regular anal sex is not advisable (especially for beginners, and I am talking about regular as say more than two separate occasions per week, for enemas only once) is because almost completely regardless of how hard or soft you go about it, you will to some degree inhibit and disrupt electrolyte absorption by your intestines. To make a long story short, the first thing that would happen that would indicate to you that you're having too much anal sex or just doing it wrong is loss of weight; this can happen within a rather short time frame, like less than a month. Further down the line you have disturbances in appetite, in which nothing you eat ever seems right. Then you have stuff like constant vision problems, heart rhythm problems and weakness, issues with immune system, fever and so on and so forth.

Regular enemas are not advisable at all because they literally sweep through your entire intestinal tract, which can easily cause huge electrolyte disturbances, especially if they are in one way or the other done improperly, either through method or equipment or both. They are fine, say, once a week as they help clean out all the terrible crap that most of us put into our bodies, and they also stimulate and relieve stress on the body, but to do it so often that it like becomes this "thing" for you, or like a secondary way to take a shit, is very bad.

With that said, anal sex here and there is no big deal. To be honest, in my opinion, if you and your partner don't mind, then you don't really even need to do enemas, but in this case you absolutely have to take a big piss when you're done, regardless of gender and regardless of role, as this ensures that your urinary tract does not harbor any feces and become infected and whatnot.

Two simple things to avoid with anal sex is friction and tearing. The latter is easily avoided. In the case of the former, friction, especially once you get beyond the anus, tells you that you're doing it wrong. Friction is essentially scraping, and scraping the walls of the intestine irritates them and ultimately inhibits their proper function to various extents. And also, there is no errogneous tissue inside the intestines, only at the anus, thus the sexual gain in that area is merely one of mentality and emotion -- albeit potentially rather great -- not physical.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

a tiny bit of blood should not worry you too much. but it should not continue bleeding for mor than a day or two. if it does, go to a doctor. you might have hemorroids, which means you shouldn't have anal sex at all.

i'd say if it bled, don't have anal sex for a week. if it bleeds every time, stop having anal sex.