How many fingers should I be able to insert?

How many fingers should I be able to insert into my vagina so I know that when I have sex for the first time it won't hurt? 3? 4? When I put 3 in it hurts. I just don't want sex for the first time to hurt
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  • If you're going to go that route, then I suggest you invest in something shaped more like a penis than your fingers.

    Just make sure you are fully aroused when you go at it. It'll most likely hurt anyway, but that will make it easier.

    Honestly, I liked that it hurt a little my first time. He could still fit four fingers in before that, though, and if I was completely turned on, that didn't hurt at all. Just goes to show you, a penis is different.

    Go get yourself an average sized dildo - don't be too ambitious and go for the xxx video status equipment. You can play with those later.

  • ha I wonder the same thing because I only had sex once and it hurt but now I can insert several fingers so I am hoping it won't hurt next time

    i can fit 2-3 of my own fingers comfortably when I am aroused.

    but the past 2 guys have fingered me both have used one finger and told me I'm tight.

    one said "you're so tight I'd come so fast"

    and the other, last week, said "it might hurt if I f*** you", he used one finger and it was...pretty snug, but I wasn't at orgasm point yet.

  • You have better luck with a dildo honestly. Your fingers and a penis are two very different things, even if he's just as thick as three fingers, the sensation isn't going to be the same. If it was, then a lot more women would prefer his hands over his penis lol :P different stimulation. Just relax and know it's gonna hurt.

    All apart of being a woman.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Im assuming you're a virgin. If the guy you end up doing it with cares for you then he should be patient and have your pleasure at the height of his priorities to make it the leader painful it can be and take it slow.

    If you try just loosen yourself up before that. Perhaps a dildo then that's similar sized top an average guy. I think feeling some pain first time is almost unavoidable in most cases though sorry

  • Well its gonna depend on how thick the guy is.but 3fingers is a good start.sex won't hurt your first time if the guy dors a lot of foreplay UNLESS the guys as thick as your wrist and that's highly unlikely...if the guy is good at foreplay and it still hurts its more likely that your gonna feel more pleasure than pain

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  • It's different for every guy height, weight, age, they're all factors. You won't know for certain until it happens.

  • About 3 but yeah I gues it more essential that you are properly aroused with foreplay and maybe gently working up to sex by fingering. If you go too fast you're going to have a bad time.

  • You should try something other than fingers... play with a dildo, perhaps.

  • Wow three? That's more than me.

    If you can fit a tampon in it should hurt too much.I was thinking of stretching but if its going to hurt every time id rather do it once for real not little by little.

  • Less than 4 I don't know it sounds gross

  • Just wait for an actual guy because it'll still hurt reguardless

  • depends how loosened up you are... remember, a baby can fit through there, you just need to learn how to relax and control your muscles, try getting familar with yourself(masturbate) before having sex.

  • im not sure but if it helps my penise is bout 3 fingers wide and the girls I been with still say it still hurts sometimes but not sure.

    can I ask how many you can et in there now and how big your fingers are?

    • 3 ffingers is approx 2.2 inches wide

    • ok cool mines is just bout 2.6 and that is slighty bove average (for thickness) so I think if you can get 3 you be fine.

  • With me? A fist's worth...