How many of you would consider yourself selfless in bed?

[Anonymous]

By this, I mean spending a night just pleasing your partner without getting anything back in return?

[Anonymous]

sometimes.

last weekend I met a 'dancer' and ended up at her place. I pleased her & just enjoyed being with a girl since it had been a while.

other times I have been the one who got the most out of it.

usually it is about even.

[Asker]

'Dancer', as in?

[ketfoen]

Not get any back in return?

Guess I'm not selfless, I am damn downright selfish, hahaha. She ain't getting off that easy.

[KimmyB]

I actually prefer pleasing my partner without getting anything back in return... because then I feel like I did something good that they enjoyed, which makes me happy :o)

[Anonymous]

Most people do want pleasure and/or intimacy from sex, but women would be more likely to have sex without orgasm because it's expected of us.

[Asker]

True, but tough to generalise. What you talk about is what I've just done last night. And no, I actually ended up feeling good about it :-)

[Opinion Owner]

That's good. It's probably a matter of expectation, I suppose.

[Anonymous]

Well, I'm a virgin, so I'd be happy with anything, I wouldn't need to get anything in return, I'd be happy just satisfying her all night long and exploring every inch of her body.

[Anonymous]

Most of the time I am

I just want him to love me! lol

[Anonymous]

I mean I wouldn't say I am completely selfless, but I always make sure she's very happy (or so I think) before I finish.

[Asker]

I meant a situation where you don't even get started :-)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no, for the record - I always *cum*