How many one night stands have you had?

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Do you regret any of them?

kholland65 · Accepted Answer

0 if you count random girls I just met, 2 if you count girls I simple wasn't dating. Could have easily been more but I'm not really a fan of the idea and don't go out of my way to sleep with girls I'm not dating. Eats at my conscience, plus I don't like the drama. It's also just hard to for me to do because its like a mental paradox. If I like the girl enough to sleep with her then naturally I want to date her. If I don't like her enough to date, then I'm not interested in sleeping with her either. In other words, sex and dating are a package in my mind. I just can't sleep with girls whom I don't find attractive and cool enough to date. It just does nothing for me, not much unlike I'm having sex with a blow up doll or something.

The first time was with a friend close friend of mine. We were both drunk at a party at my house. She was a horny drunk and at the end of the night, I was the only single guy left, just her best friend and her friends Boyfriend remained (and where passed out). She just started making out with me, one thing led to another and she eventually ended up giving me a BJ. No sex, just BJ.

The second time was with a girl who I had been sort of seeing but was officially together with yet. Just flirting and a few times hanging out. Same story, we were at a party, she was drunk. The previous night I promised to stay out late with her (normally I would have to cut our nights short because of work), After the party I drove her home and she held me to my promise and asked me to come hang out inside with her. I honestly don't think her intention was to sleep with me. I however, had over heard her talking to her friend at the party about moving back in with her ex boyfriend who lived in another state. Clearly I was not happy about this. I knew I was about to drop this girl but I didn't want to leave empty handed after the time and money I spend on her. I used that opportunity to hook up with her. We went in her room, and as always making out led to sex. The next day I pretty much told her to go f*** herself.

Not sure if those count, but hey, what the hell, at least it might have provided for 2 min of entertainment.

Shyscot · Accepted Answer

Honestly? None.

It's a strange thing for a guy to admit, but Its not something I have ever looked for.

I much prefer being in a committed relationship. I know how to do that, being a pick up artist is a bit of a mystery to me.

billme1070 · Accepted Answer

What is so terrible about an occasional ONS? We get horny too just like guys do. As long as you are careful and use the proper protection I don't have a big problem with it. That said I've only had 2 ONS so far in my life.

IHateMeganFox · Accepted Answer

Like 8. I mean, I don't regret it but I think to myself wtf? They weren't one night stands on my accord though.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've never had a one night stand but I have had sex that I regret.

ilovebread · Answer

none

jpinka · Answer

0...no one nighters for me

Afonsoasl · Answer

Never had one and I don't ever want to do either

NickInVideo · Answer

3...4... maybe 6?  I don't know, some turn into booty calls.

normalice · Answer

maybe three or so. Not nearly enough. no regrets at all on the ones I had. Many regrets on the ones I did not have.

Lj236 · Answer

Zero

Anonymous · Answer

3.  No regrets about those.  They were fun.  The only regrets I have are missed opportunities for about 5 more that I could have had.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a bit happy about reading a couple of girls saying that they haven't and have no interest in doing it. There's at least a little hope for me. I have never been involved in casual sex.