How many is too many guys to sleep with?

Guys...what number of partners is ideal for your girlfriend to have? None, a few, a lot? What number is the cut off to being too much?
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  • I never want to know about my girlfriend's sexual history, unless she's a virgin. Don't wanna know how many boyfriends she's had, how many guys she's blown, anything of that sort. I'm not necessarily insecure, but if a girl tells me a number, I'll only be able to picture myself as ""number N+1" and think about her with all the other guys.

    I understand we're all human and we all have sexual histories, so I'd say one guy every 6 months starting at around 16, meaning a 24 year old's maximum number I'd consider "okay" to be about 16. However that includes any sex, not just the number of guys she's had intercourse with. If she's only had sex with 3 guys but given blowjobs to another 30, that's WAY worse than a girl who's slept with 12 and not given blowjobs to any more.

  • Personally I really don't care, 0-50 as long as she is my girlfriend and she is clean its whatever.

    Why can guys sleep with 5 girls in one night and be a hero, but if a girl sleeps with 5 guys she is a slut? Its not logical I think. I hate double standards on anything.

    • I consider that a hero for a guy or a girl. That's quite an accomplishment. lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why would anyone care really does it matter no I wouldn't care or even ask and I would not a Virgin either totally inexperienced not fun plus if I were to have a relationship the less people the more curious about the rest of the world

  • As long as they weren't one night stands or FWB things, and an emotional connection was made before the physical, the number doesn't matter.

  • How about a don't ask, don't tell policy with all your partners?

    • How many have you been with?

    • really has nothing to do with the partner...I was asking you personally.

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  • Well, I would prefer the woman I marry one day to not have had so many sexual partners, the less the better. Perhaps 0 - 2 sexual partners. It sounds a bit unrealistic I guess, and most likely will be very hard to find, but it is what I consider ideal. The more sexual partners they have had the more amazing and perfect this girl must be for me to be with her. Although their sexual history will still definitely bother me. So obviously a virgin would be best. If a girlfriend has had more than 3 sexual partners, it would bother me, and it would bother me way more if they weren't relationships but friends with benefits or one night stands etc. Like I said in the beginning it might sound unrealistic, but it's just the way it is, well in my case anyway.

    • Good to know that not all guys like girls who "put themselves out there" :P

    • I'm curious, are you only going to have 0-2 sexual partners yourself? I'm not trying to sound snitty; I'm honestly curious.

    • Well, more than likely not. You can be in a relationship longer enough for sex to start coming into it and then after that you could break up, with many possible reasons being the cause and then the cycle continues until your with someone that lasts. If I could have it any way I wanted I would want to have both myself and my girlfriend to be in that range, but obviously life doesn't always work out that way.

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  • It really doesn't matter to me.

    • So, you'd be able to trust a woman that has a history of being a whore in a relationship?

    • @darkknight1x have you ever slept a girl? So are u a whore? Or just a hypocrite?

  • as long your disease free I don't care. A naked women in my pressence is all that I ask

  • For women, no more than 5

    For men, no more than 10

    And please don't tell me that this sexist, I don't want to hear it.

    • so you know then?

    • Double standard alert! Society's unintended backlashes have officially taken full effect, yay!

    • there is a double standard for reasons so get over it burger fliper

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  • I'd say about 5000 guys is too much. 4900 and she's still just not living life.

    • Gene Simmons, LOL.

    • Thank you, moderator. I was afraid some people weren't going to get the joke. :)

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  • I'd prefer for us to have about the same experience with me on the plus side of any margin.

  • Once a woman gets into double digits with the number of guys she's had meaningless coitus with then she's a whore.

    • so its the meaningless part? I can have sex with 9 guys meaninglessly and its ok?

    • Its pretty much the meaningless part that's the problem. In other words having sex with guys you don't love or they don't love you. And neither of you care if the other one drops dead after having sex. Nine seems to be reasonable, but in a lifetime though.

  • why, how many guys have you been with to ask this?

  • Its so unfair how guys can sleep with all the girls they want and girls can't do the same

    • yes we can ;)

  • Personally I have no room to judge a girl on how many guys she has slept with sense I don't know an exact number of how many girls I have been with. hipocrits suck ass.

  • zero would be best

  • None would be cool. At my age I'll go with 0-10.

    • how old are you...would you prefer to date a virgin?

    • I'm 21. And I would because it would be cool for me and my girlfriend to share the moment but it's not a huge deal. If she's not a virgin she can teach me things. :P

  • the lower the number the better, I'd prefer none but after 8 partners I'd start to question

  • I say, he doesn't really need to know. Chances are he is gonna lie, rather his number is high or low. As long as you both are clean, who cares!

  • depends on her age

    25 - 5 guys is fine

    16- 5 is way too much

  • Unless you have an STD, I wouldn't discuss it. We are always fearful some guy in the past will make us look pathetic in bed or puny in architecture. For your self-evaluation, averaging more than onw new guy every two years suggests you are a player or offer only sex as a prize.

    • one every two years? So say I started at 18 that would mean that at my current age of 26 anything more than 4 guys is slutty?