How much pressure to apply when rubbing a girl's clitoris?

[Anonymous]

How much pressure do I need to apply when rubbing a girl's clitoris for maximum pleasure? Don't want to go too hard or too soft. I'm good with nipples. Should I be applying pretty much the same pressure when fondling her clitoris as when I'm fondling her nipples?

[Anonymous]

When in doubt, apply soft pressure, since rough stimulation can cause pain. My boyfriend has a tendency to be a little heavy handed with my clit and I have to constantly remind him to be gentler. Since the clitoris is more sensitive than the nipples, I think I lighter touch will usually be more appropriate. However, every girl is different. Girls can also usually take more intense stimulation as they get closer to their climax. Experiment, change it up, and try to use her reactions as a guide. Or better yet, ask her to show you what she likes.

[cun7n1nja]

The amount of pressure necessary to be most effective for a woman will vary entirely depending on each individual woman. What gets one woman going may be painful or even not enough for another. Your best bet would be to start soft and increase speed/pressure as you go, paying attention to her reactions. For most women, increased pressure will feel better the closer she is to orgasm. Basically, the more turned on she is, the more stimulation she can take.

[cun7n1nja]

Thanks for BA. Also try playing around with direct and indirect stimulation. Like over the hood and then gradually moving it back and progressively getting more direct with the clit itself.

[jadejess]

I think it depends. Personally, I am extremely sensitive so even light pressure (if it's direct pressure) is a lot of stimulation for me. But I think that every girl is different in this aspect so you'll just have to learn what feels good for your girl.

[ketfoen]

ask her first before applying more pressure for pleasure.

[Nannook]

Not to hard and not to soft. My boyfriend sometimes rubs it to lightly and I get nothing from it. But my ex sometimes did it to hard and I had to stop him. So, somewhere in the middle, try to find a balance there.

[ashleyxo]

You know in general the pressure you use while scratching yourself? (normal scratching) Use that amount of pressure. Use the other side of your finger though. She won't want any nails scratching her!

[makip]

Dont go hard, the clit is twice as sensitive as the head of the penis..so try to go soft there

[davematthewsband589]

use your index finger to simultaneously maintain the clit vibrating at a constant speed of 5 m/s squared

[LittleAmyP]

It dependse on the girl, some girls like it soft other girls likes it rough

[Xx_DRE_xX]

It should be in the middle.

[Anonymous]

if you can rub indirectly off to one side almost kinda like you're trying to get under it instead of directly on top of it? you can rub harder and it won't be too much just an fyi.

[Anonymous]

If I'm wet and only if I'm wet, I can go with a decent amount of pressure. Rub at a medium pressure and see what she says.