How old are you and how many sexual partners?

Please be honest! Go anonymous if you have to. And I'm aware that many people may not know the exact number but take a guess... I'm almost 26 years old and I don't remember exactly how many I've had but Id say it is around 25. I had a lot of fun in college but in the last 6 years I've been with only 2.
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  • Wow, guys are surprising me with such low numbers. The opposite is true for the women. I'm not as bad as most of my friends, who claim if a girl is over 10 guys they would never date them. I would say if a girl has over 20, I might put her in the just bang category. I understand every girl can't be a virgin, but 20 something guys in your early 20's? How could you expect any guy to wanna treat you like a lady?

    • I totally get what you're saying but...what makes one better enough to judge? As a young child I was deprived of love and freedom to build friendships. When I was 18 I moved out and for two years I would have sex to feel wanted not realizing it wasn't love. Obviously at this age I know better and now I'd never sleep with someone I didn't feel a connection with. Just saying.. you don't know someones life story and I didn't really ask if you thought I should be treated like a lady. Thanks though!

    • I'm sorry you had a troubled past, but that's still not an excuse to go out and bang a ton of guys to make yourself feel good inside. I know life sucks sometimes, and I'm hardly perfect. If this is how bad the average girl truly is, then I could see why guys have little to no respect for women these days. How could you? I'm starting to think most girls are like Snooki from "The Jersey Shore".

    • I mean... at this age (26) I'd never hop into bed with someone I didn't feel a connection with. I think that's why one should find love once we've matured and made our mistakes.

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  • i'm 32. Only been with 26, I think. 28 if you count anal, 31 if you count oral. Not a lot, but I'm horrible at talking to women...

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  • I am 36 and have had 25 +. I do not keep count. I too had a lot of fun in college but most have been spread over my post college years.

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  • 21, 2

  • I'm 19 years old and have had one sexual partner.

  • 29 and around 12

  • 26 years old - 32-35 females total (a few 18 2nd yr uni, most were 19-27, one or two were 29 and 32 at a bar on separate times.

    3 were in 1yr + relationships with me - I never cheated on any. 2 of them cheated on me (one with a fat guy who had a marcades -I ditched her instantly when I found out - she just wanted to get money from him when shopping - probably cheated on him too - the other was just immature 2nd yr uni and seeing multiple people behind my back 4-5 different people is my guess during the last use semester I foolishly allowed myself to be in a relationship during attempt number 3 before I ditched her ass the second time I caught her with a different dude in her dorm. Girl number 1 during 1st yr relationship was awesome and great but she moved away to a different uni for 2nd yr. Id like to find that dynamic again because its better than ONS' but too jaded now currently from girl # 2 and 3 being jackasses behind my back. there's no way to get over the hurt so you just have to move on and keep your guard up after for the future before opening up to anyone else I find.

    16 girls were dates I met online on tinder/other dating apps (I live in North America) - msged a week or two then mostly pub for drinks / ons' after same night pr second night out together.

    3-4 girls were through mutual friends at get togethers (followed by a drink or two at pub one on one or hanging out with movie one on one in one of our places but just a couple lays came out from each of them - not relationship territory then fizzled out/moved on).

    The rest were girls 19-27 mostly I met at clubs or (1/3 of them) through mutual friends at clubs down town over 6-7 year period and were mostly ONS I only met that night with about 3 that lead to the odd friends with benefits for a semester at most (but no official relationship coming out of it). A lot which shoked me I found out were posted in relationships on instagram when I checked the next morning or (or same night and simply didn't care - if not cheating with me they'll chest on their dude with someone else anyway the same night so I figure mise while be me if they are wanting to anyway. I'm single so not like Im doing anything wrong on my end anyway). I never hook up with them if they are too drunk though and ubered a few home to make sure they got home safe and encouraged them to stay with their boyfriend for the night if they seemed like it was a one off and they were just making a bad choice because their female friends were trying to get them to cheat on their boyfriend during girls night out.

    **I got really jaded after seeing how many girls I slept with at clubs were (on facebook or instagram) in relationships while that was happening and sating they were just on a break or on a "girls night out." I know a lot of girls don't cheat but it seems an insane portion (if presented the opportunity below age 25 for about 60-70% of girls - and probably guys at a similar percentage on their end) (and if someone hits on them who is either richer (or pretending to ve richer that night) or more hansom comes along it seems most girls will (in my small and limited sample size of experience - this may not be true on a larger scale I'm hoping).

    But it really makes me jaded about getting into another relationship again when I'm really kind and caring to the girl I'm dating and doing nothing wrong, and 2/3 of them so far have just gone off and treated me like crap with some sleezy doorknob of a bloke who doesn't even give a shit about them past using them for their bodies behind my back for the night, or false promises of commiting to them eventually (and of course never actually doing so) even though their already in a relationship with me. Even though I'd like to someday feel comfortable to commit exclusively to a girl again long term down the road I really don't see any reason why I should at the moment when most just try and cheat the minute I turn my back on them or they have a "girls night out." It seems like when I treat my girl well and care greatly about her well being and happiness they treat me like crap behind my back, and as long as I don't commit and treat them uncaring (and honestly kind of like crap) they really pursue me for the night. I'm not sure what to make of all this.

    • For the guys: It is worth noting I'm probably 80-85% in terms of popularity compared to all guys at university and at the clubs after I graduated. Im really hansom, but 5'9 is sometimes an issue for a couple girls. Very athletic build from provincial soccer and can bench press/cable row 4sets x 12reps at 155lbs comfortably. My income is fairly high in commercial banking in my late 20s now which honestly makes things infinitely easier when I tell girls I work in commercial banking now, on top of having similar/more game and looks than most guys. I look like a slightly shittier version of john mayer with much less jaw line.

    • Before graduating and getting promoted twice it was way harder without the income while still in uni doing finance and accounting. I know income shouldn't matter - and I may get some flack for stating this - but this is just my honest personal experiwnce when interacting with girls to share with the younger up and coming males looking to step their game up - income and job status account for easily 60% boost in success with girls most of the time with very rare exception. Almost every single girl on a date will ask me what I do and try to figure out how much I make to some extent. Its not crazy income but more than most middle class careers (except engineering) starting out which helps a lot. Get fit early on - get income as soon as you can after graduating - and try to choose to be born with really hansom genes - this is what works consistently most times now. - good luck boys.

  • 23 years old, 3 sex partners

  • 24, 0 :(

    • come to NY and I'll turn that 0 into a 1

    • haha OK ;)

  • 17 years old, and 0 :P

    • good for you ... save yourself for as long as you can! but when you do give it away just don't have high expectations as we are living in the 20th century!

    • Yeah, not waiting until marriage or anything like that. Just until I love someone more than anything and they feel the same so it's somewhat special.(:

    • At least, happy to see there are still that innocent and cute girls out there ;) well be sure, to be with one who will truly love you, because that I see you're such a great cute nice girl, If I had the chance, I would love you forever :)

  • 17, 0 :$

  • 21, 0

  • 21, 0

  • 20, 13. I had a hoe year.

    • lol .. nothing wrong with that. I hate when people vote answers down. Who are they to judge. In my opinion, you have the experience needed to please a man and you've played enough to stay faithful and never wonder "what if"...

    • Thankyou. You are right. I know how to please a man. And I said had. So I'm not having sex anymore like a hoe.

  • Just 18 and 0

  • 54..and 20 to 25...(:(:(:

  • 28. 6 or 7

  • 18 and 0!

  • 23, 0

  • 24, 0, almost had a chance to lose it, but I didn't go all the way, did everything except for sticking it in

  • I'm 35. I've been with 5 guys.

  • 23, 0

  • 24 & 0

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