How to accept a kiss during the rimming game

[Anonymous]

The other night after some drinks my girlfriend rimmed my ass. The feeling was good but I felt bit degraded. I didn’t want her kissing me straight after that. I tried to avoid her kiss during the game. It is my ass but still I was feeling disgusted. How can you manage to accept a kiss straight after such a game or during the game? She has such a high sex drive three times more than me. HELP!

[HandsomeRaj]

lol I go with Olivia9 here and I'd have said it even if none else had lol - apologies, I don't mean to mock but it was HER tongue in your ass, if someone may / should feel degraded it's HER!

YOU on the other hand buddy should be on top of the world :)

The other aspect is that lot of people aren't able to kiss after someone's rimmed them cause we often consider the butt hole as a dirty and digusting place. As a matter of hygiene I'd go with you but agian you know your hygiene levels better than her or anyone else. Hence, if it's hygiene that you aren't sure about then it's irresponsible of you to even let her do that.

When the girl's done something that actually is way too intimate the least you can do is kiss her. By rimming you she probably has shown that she is really into you (unless she has a fetish for it and does it to anyone she's with at a point of time - but even with a fetish it takes quite a bit for someone to do that)

High sex drive - everyone has their own :) there are those for who more than once a week is seen as a 'high sex drive' THAT is something again that can be spoken to her about and ofcourse I don't think there's any medication to lower sex drives though a lot of them boast about increasing it. That's a conversation between you and her situation then you take it forward from there :)

Good luck

[blackkid2]

I can actually see where you would feel degraded as you do not sound willing and excited for the activity which can leave a feeling of "use", furthermore her behavior doesn't incorporate whether or not you would be ... receiving of the rest of her wiles, which is inconsiderate, but that's where your problem lies actually. First off it's a butt, kissing a butt, including your own, is pretty gross. Her wilfully doing whatever to your butt does not automatically translate to you wishing to do the same thing to your own butt. Your logic is correct.

As for "how to enjoy it"? Um, you can't, unless you become willing to do the rimming thing and then moreso to not be disgusted by your own butt. It's a two part process and it sounds like you don't have any of the parts down. My girlfriend is the same way so I just respect that; I don't think she'd ever really want to kiss after any form oral sex when performed on her ( but it's fine for her to kiss me after fellatio, weird ?_? ), and that's her thing, and that's okay.

So this is your thing and that's okay. You probably will just never be down with it unless you inspire yourself to really want to do it.

[Olivia9]

Wait, YOU feel degraded, and she is the one with her tongue in YOUR ass? What 's wrong with this picture. lmao Plus it's your own ass, it's like being disgusted by your own spunk man, she has her TONGUE IN A HAIRY MAN ASSHOLE. I mean if anyone should feel degraded it's her. Jeez Louise

[Asker]

She wanted to try !

[HughR]

LMAO at the answer but so true. I mean, don't you love when she sucks you after you come during anal?

[smilesgirl]

You could bring up the question of what sexual things she would never do/is against. Then give yours & include *ss to mouth--that would give you a chance to specify that includes kissing after rimjobs.

[lauramor]

I don't get the degradstion but well if you are disgusted then just be honest with her. Youmall have dos and donts in bed

[Account]

LOL...Seriously?

How did you feel degraded? She's the one who put her tongue in your anus.

[kheserthorpe]

Degradation - you're doing it wrong.

[-0x0-]

Yeah, don't see how you're degraded here, the whole sexyness is she's degrading herself FOR YOU.

Maybe the words you're looking for is you feel emasculated? I know a lot of straight guys can be really paranoid about anything to do with their butt because butt=gay. That's just stupid.

Its a girl who likes you so much she'll even go that far to try and make you happy. That's awesome.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

If it's good enough for her mouth, it's good enough for yours. Man up.

[Philyouup]

cleanliness you have to confident that you and her are clean.. its post shower/bath activity for us.

[Anonymous]

either disinfect her mouth or get a new girlfriend.