How to arrange a one night stand?

i went through a sh*tty brake up and I feel like I need a woman right just sexually. I've never done this before Because I'm more of a relationship type of guy. do I go to frat parties? how does it work? guys with experience let me know what to do. I don't wanna be an a**hole to the girl though.
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  • You can't arrange them, you can't guarantee them at all. They're spontaneous, they just happen. You meet someone and you click and there's sexual tension, and you're both into one night stands, and then you go somewhere, one of your places or someplace else, and f***, and it's glorious. But if you go to a party or a club or a like place with the intention of getting laid, you'll often come away disappointed.

    I recommend, instead of going out looking to get laid, for yourself, you keep yourself OPEN to sexuality. Whereas before, as you said, you're a relationship type of guy, this isn't your terrain. You've been closed off to it. Open yourself to it, and go with it should the chance arrive. Just put yourself in positions where you'll meet people, and exude your newfound sexuality. It'll come to you. Just don't worry about it, you know? Don't go searching, you'll come home sore.

    So, uh, essentially, change the inner message from 'I need this NOW' to 'Well, this is what I think I'll do for this part of my life.' Set no deadlines, etc. You know. Just let it be.

  • Online dating works. Or sometimes one has an old friend where it just works out. Going out with that goal doesn't work that well in my opinion.

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  • I suppose a frat party might be the spot where lots of girls might be, but the one night stand is only going to happen a couple of ways. One is if you meet a girl and there is an immediate connection between the two of you and the other would be being very freindly with a girl who is a bit over her limit with alocohol consumption and you talk your way between her legs.

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  • as you said your more of a relationship type of guy and you haven't done it before hence as a human being I would advice you not to stain your image ...these things causes stress later...be patient

    • How is it one "stained" when one has casual sex?

    • if you go more detail sex before marriage is undoubtedly a sin

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