How to ask a guy for sex?

I am girl, 19 y. o. I am cute. I want a sex but am shy and dont know how to ask for.
I keep a few guys on mind with one of them i would like to have a sex.
I am afraid of being rejected. Or i wouldn't like he to laugh at me or discuss this with his friend or call me whore. I dont need relationships. Just sex.
Tell me how guys work.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • " tonight, we gettin fawked up! Bro are you in or out? Oh i firgot thats your job."

    Okay, dont say that. Well since you are an indirect person. Hints include
    - a lot of physical touching
    - indirect dirty talk
    - lastly the biting of the lower lip.

    Others may incluse easing your way to it by
    Setting the tone and mood.
    - dressing a certain way
    - talking about your dream experience
    - could be as easy as hearing his.

    Other option that worked for me.
    Ask him how to compress his sexual desires.
    What did he do.
    Then turn that into a dirty conversation.
    Not heavy just what you wanted to try, did, or you can't take your mind off of being kissed or what ever.

    Grab some paper and pen and get started. Got options. Mix and match.

  • 1) Don't ask for sex
    2) Don't be afraid to be rejected.

    Sex is something that happens when you date, then stay together at some romantic place, drink cocktails, kiss, etc. etc.

    Well if the guy is still a kid, don't do that with him, find someone older.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you’re just looking for fwbs, I suggest just openly asking if they’d be, hypothetically, down to have sex with no strings attached. If they respond positively, boldly say you’d like too.

  • Tell him you want to get busy and help him get his homework done.

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  • You don’t ask. You look good, smile a lot. Make eye contact. Talk to him about normal stuff & find excuses to touch his arm/chest.

    Let him think it’s his idea to go for more. If he has balls he will.

  • Just be very flirtatious with the guy. Most guys are plenty open to just having some sex

  • Use a porn app because I doubt most guys would actually say yes

  • There is lots that could be said and not enough space here... I'm a sex and relationship coach so follow and message me if you'd like to explore...

  • As much as i think we shud just come out n be direct... we can't... sadly. so best thing is to chat n flirt n bring up fantasies etc... make it obvious ur not against one nighters but ur not sure cos u think guys will become attached etc.. guage his reaction n if its psitive then suggest hooking up

  • Grab hold of a man's cock as him does he know how to use it. He will say.. you say prove it?

  • U make a move, and then wait for them to make one. Slowly graduate that way I think. u can make 2-3 moves in a row if they don't get an idea. But do wait for them to make one, otherwise can end in ur worst nightmare. U can DM if u would like to

  • you just ask "wanna fuck" if you are as cute as you say you are no one will say no

  • Start with inviting him over for movie then ask him to cuddle then start making moves.

  • I am cute too.
    Tell him : Fuck me right in the pussy.
    Simple

  • Just ask no guy will reject a girl if it's about sex

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  • Go out with him start kissing and then you just have to be in rhythm

  • you do not need to say it directly, give it signs of what you want.. look at it with desire and make sensual gestures that surely he will understand. First, make him feel excited and then they will be ready for the second phase, which would be sex

  • Ask him 😀

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  • 'Me. You. Sex.' And they'll jump in your bed.