How to ask a guy for nude pics?

There is a guy I'm talking to and I was wondering how I ask him for pics that I can pleasure myself to?
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ok guys, would you say absolutely not?
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Just to let you know, I got a pic :)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Obviously, this just isn't something that every guy is going to go for, just as every girl doesn't. it depends on the kind of guy he is, and the kind of relationship you have. Are you open and honest with him about everything, including sex? Have you sent him pics of you?

    If yes to both of those questions, you have a reasonable chance of him agreeing. I would say something like this:

    "It's really hot for me to know that you have naked pictures of me; I get turned on by the thought of you looking at them. And I'd really love it if I had some of you too. Would you be willing?"

    He'll probably at least THINK about it if you phrase it that way.

  • I would like a trade, give a little get a little

    start a playful/flirt conversation about it asking if he's ever sent a pic or received any and then just ask if you send him one will he send you one in return, especially if you say you want to pleasure yourself to it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol I have never had to ask. Guys have always offered. Just be like, "hey can you send me a pic of your d*** so I can get off?" I'm he'd be more than happy to do so. Guys LOVE showing their d*** to girls.

    • Ow Yea !

  • I'd say start a flirtatious conversation, let it become sexual, and ask for him to show you what you're working with and say he might get a little surprise in return. Don't forget the ;) at the end!

  • Ask he very well might give you the chance to take the pics yourself and in the future help you pleasure yourself.

    • Was he all that you expected? LOL

    • Yes

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  • Send him nudes first and then he'll be sweet with it

  • Bring it up kinda casualy to see what he says or thinks about it.

  • Start sexting slow and work your way up to it, by the way does it have to be him?

  • Offer up your goods first. tell him that you'll send yours for his.

    • Send me one and I would definitely send one back. some rules though no headshots.

  • I would just say what you wrote. It would be an ego boost for him if you told him that you wanted nude pics of him so you can pleasure yourself. I am always happy to provide a pic when someone ask

    • Same here :D ...

    • Glad to see that it worked out for you.

  • "set the tone", and ask him if he wants a naughty pic of you.

    Then say that you'll send one if you'll send him one back. :)

    • I agree. a good trade off is always best. if you give me one I'll give you one kinda deal.

  • Im all for masturbation but to give a person a nude pic ot pleasure themselves although I must admit is arousing yet I will be shy to do it.

  • Why will you want a nude pic of a guy to pleasure yourself?

  • Just ask jokingly at first and see how he responds.

  • No need to be shy about it. Go Ahead and ask. Be frank.

  • ill show you mine if you show me yours ;) lol

  • Just ask him if you want I can send you sum :) andyofthemountain@gmail.com

  • I'd love to send you pics if you're interested, I'm a 25 yo M. rockhard05@yahoo.com

  • How can I ask a guy for a picture when I'm not even like VERY CLOSE to him. We are just like friends that chat in Whatsapp... and he is great in playing the musical instrument

  • I would flirt with him and see how it goes

  • what sort of relationship do you two have? how long have you two been chatting and what do you two talk about. has he seen any pic's of you (naked or clothed). do you two go on webcam?

    depending if it was a girl I was chatting with or if it was a girl friend I would be shy but if she looked cute/pretty I'll prob say yes as long as I get a few pictures of you too.

  • Face or no face, don't do it. That's creepy and I would feel odd having her do that. Keep the sex, REAL!

    • No wait? I want pics of him lol

    • Both. I was referring to both

  • tell him you'll suck his d*** if he shows it to you

  • Be direct about it

    • @update: I'd probably turn you down, but I think I'm more prudish about that than other guys. It would make me feel vulnerable. I don't even like taking regular pictures. lol