How to be good on top?

Question

Girls or guys, how can a girl be good on top in bed? I haven't done it yet mostly because I really just don't know what to do.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

Here's a link:   I suggest getting on top and experimenting(if you haven't been on top before). Try to find out what feels good for you and him. If you find that both of you prefer different movements, compromise with you doing whatever until you orgasm and then you'll do what he prefers or let him do you whichever way he wants. Personally for me though, I sit up right, I tuck my legs under his or slightly under my butt(which would be above his knees), I hold myself up with my arms on his chest and I start by going up and down slowly so I can get used to the sensation or else it's a little uncomfortable. Then I start to grind while I hold myself up. I have a strong lower body(legs) so I don't get tired, but if you do, try using hips more and legs less. I grind, because it offers more clitoral stimulation, which I loveeee. Once I became used to being on top, I started to like, stick my hand behind so I could er, play with his "jewels" which he likes. Occasionally I bounce and I JUST noticed I have the habit of leaning back when I do haha. I like, arch my back. Once you've figured out what feels best for the both of you, just have fun! It's TOTALLY nerve wrecking and everyone is clueless at first, but once you've figured out what feels best, you're doing it correct. You can sit up, lean forward, arch back, lay on top of him--whatever feels good Play with your boobs, kiss him, kiss his neck, rub his chest, suck on his nipples, put your boobs in his face/mouth, take his hands and put them on your boobs or have him rub your clit or rub your own clit. Have fun with it.

fmxtattedmom · Accepted Answer

Try different ways I love shifting in sex I like sitting my man on a chair and ass facing him hands dow on the floor and just bounce my ass up and down so he can get a view of it going in and out I like him laying down and me more of on my feet squating riding him and I wear boots when I do that it kinda supports your legs better so you can go longer

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Girls tend to grind back and forth while on top for clitoral stimulation so I get why. Not to sound selfish but when a girl is doing that we're not going in and out of her so we don't get much out of it.

So I think a fair mix of grinding for you and up and down for us would be welcome.

rtri1 · Accepted Answer

well you can get some pointers by watching a lot of p*rn and it's all trial and error as everybody has something unique that works for them, but I would say p*rn can cover at least majority of base.