How to be on top during sex?

My boyfriend always wants me to be on top during sex. I'm new to sex, and I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. he hasn't complained, but I don't know. I get this sensation that I have to go pee when I'm on top and "riding him". When he's on top it feels more comfortable. Is that normal? I know I don't actually have to go pee, so why do I have that sensation? Also, how do you know if your are "riding him" properly? A lot of the time he just grabs my waist and thrusts my body according to his own pace, does that mean I'm doing it wrong?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all, make sure you pee before sex. If you get the sensation to pee during sex, you'll know that it isn't really pee. In fact, it's probably a g-spot orgasm.

    The g-spot is that rough spot inside your p**** on the top. put your hand towards your body, slide a finger in, and bend it like you are saying "come here". That rough spot you feel is the g-spot. When you stimulate it, you will feel like you need to pee. If you keep going, though, it will give you a mind-blowing orgasm.

    If your guy's **** is pretty straight, he won't be able to hit your g-spot in man-on-top position. When you are on him, though, he can hit it almost directly, especially if you grind him. If that isn't working, turn around. You're still on top, but he is looking at your back instead of your front. He will be VERY turned on by your ass and the new position will put the head of his **** directly against your g-spot. Both of you will come pretty quickly.

  • as long as you enjoy it, he enjoys it. Guys thrive on the sensation of a girl getting off on our penis. When you are on top, all you have to worry about is pleasing yourself. If you are worried about him, you are only going to limit your potential to please yourself.

Most Helpful Girls

  • link - Ride him like that. I did this to my ex boyfriend, he loved it. You'll too.. I'm sure. You really can't go wrong with this.

    Move your hips, grind on to him.. Let him thrust up as you're going down.

    The sensation, you're getting.. It's maybe because you gotta cum? Just relax your body, don't tense up.. Just keep experimenting while you're on top. See what you both like.

  • I struggle with this too... I always worry about the fact that I’m on top so what happens if someone accidentally opens the door or something... and my thoughts are on that :( and I worry about how weird I look because I can see my body if I’m on top.

    Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

    • Also, when I’m on top because my thighs crush my calves while I move, my calves hurt hella bad :((

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  • Don't be on bottom?