How to better in bed than his ex girls?

[Anonymous]

I decided to give my virginity to my boyfriend but I am afraid he didn't appreciate it. We have sex for one month now, when I asked him how is sex like with me he said " it's the same with every girl" . And once he said that " it was better with his exes but it's because I'm not experienced like them.." I really want to be different or better than them in anything.. so I started doing crazy things, - but he did it all before i started initiating sex very often he said "i have this lucky that ALL my girlfriends like sex often".. so tell me what can make me different than them? give me any advice, I don't want be worse than his ex girlfriends

[Anonymous]

chances are you won't be but its possible. My boyfriend has had sex with 70 women and I am the best he has ever had with love. Without love is another girl. I gave him my virginity and I was interested in pleasing him, adventurous, was able to deep throat 8 inches without ever doing anything sexual or even kiss in the past, very sexual, ready, wet and willing. Although this is me it might not work for you. Just be you and learn

[Anonymous]

You need to learn his body language so you know when you're doing stuff during sex that makes him feel great. This guy sounds like he is rude and insensitive to women though so you could end up spending lots of time learning how to make him feel good just to have him leave you anyways. I think you should dump this guy.

[normalice]

the one thing that really makes sex very good for men is if the girl is into it. The more enthusiastic about the sex a girl is the better it is for us. So, don't worry about him at all. Get yourself off as often as you can, in any orifice he'll allow, and he'll be thrilled.

[Distant]

Why do you feel the need to be "better" than his ex's? You can't be better than everyone so stop trying and comparing yourself to other people. They're ex's for a reason. You won. Now find something else to worry about.

[Asker]

i want to be at least different, he said it's all the same with me and with them , no difference,

[Distant]

You are different already. Sex IS pretty much the same with all girls if you want to get technical. A vagina is a lubricated hole for guys to insert a penis into. That's not going to change. You can thrust in a slightly different method but, chances are that if your boyfriend thinks sex is all the same, you're not going to set yourself apart from the rest.

[dnately]

Your boyfriend sounds like an a**hole.

[Distant]

I agree, lol.

[kheserthorpe]

He sounds basically happy.

Spend some time learning how to make sex better for YOU.

The more you enjoy it, the more he will.

[Anonymous]

I am not too sure.

[Anonymous]

"Make your woman feel like she's inadequate, and she'll blame herself for every douche bag thing you do".

Your boyfriend is a d***, by the way.