this is why I don't want to hook up with girls that haven't put anything inside them.
but you're in a relationship, you have the time and the will to work at it.
i'd suggest you finger yourself a few times a day; maybe when you wake up, or before going to sleep. both would be better.
that way when he wants to do it to you, you won't hurt so much or at all.0 1 1 1If it's just fingering and not sex, the very easiest way to relax is to get a little tipsy - just a half-glass of red wine will do.
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Get him to start by just rubbing your clit so you can get used to his hands down there. Then get him just to run his finger around your hole. Then get him just to put the tip in very slowly and tale it out again. Then in a tiny bit more and out. Then more and more until it's all the way in. That's how my boyfriend & I sorted that problem. Hope this helps :)
1 0 0 0Relax, relax, relax and open your legs so it is even easier to insert his finger in you. No reason it should hurt as it is less of an intrusion than inserting a tampon. Do however make sure he has short cut fingernails. Long or ragged nails can hurt.
2 0 0 0I agree with the other girls, but when you masturbate and finger yourself, does it hurt, ? Like Katie said, open your legs a bit more and relax, show him how you masturbate and then let him do the work. :).
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2 4How do you do it, show him how you like it , masturbate and see what feels good to you, then you can show him , Just go with it :)
0 0 0 0Thing is, do you want him to do it? If you are just doing it to find out what it is like, you will not relax and it will hurt. If you have feelings for him, then tell him to be patient with you - you will relax and it will get better.
1 0 0 0It might help if he just went down on you.
0 0 0 0Relax. I enjoyed it.
0 0 0 0Some alcohol always helps.
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