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How to eat a girl out?

This is going to be my first time. I am kind of scared I'm going to mess up or it's going to be nasty. She is giving me a blow job, so I have to give her something in return. Any tips on how to do it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You can't really mess up, but you can be boring. Personally I like firm pressure but seriously there are two types of girls: the ones that like it firm and the ones that like it gentle, you'll have to learn that for yourself. Some girls really like their clit sucked. For me it hurts. some really like attention at the vaginal opening, I agree with that one. As for it being nasty: the typical male response to wetness and taste "down there" is enthusiasm and desire. For the most part ALL men REALLY seem to like it but there are a few that are put off by the smell, my only advice to you is to train yourself to enjoy it. I did. haha. One thing that surprised me was that it tastes better than it smells so that's nice. haha. Also, make a few occasional groans or something like that to indicate that you enjoy it, it will really get her going TRUST ME. Kiss and massage her inner thighs too, massage all around the area. You can also try giving her eye contact. It weirds some girls out but personally, I love it.

  • Sounds like you're not ready. you go into worrying it will be nasty, you're not mature enough. you'll probably find it gross. I think you should just play with her clit& finger her. If you get disgusted by her, its worse than not going down imo. You should do it when you are looking forward to making her feel good. when the thought turns you on, not - not just thinking of it as an obligation.. well that would be my preference. Its a very intimate thing, so if a guy was going to be a little baby about it. no thanks.

  • Warm her up first, trust me it will get her in the mood. Fingering helps a lot! Afterward, lick her ear, kiss her neck, kiss her shoulders and slowly go further down. Once your at her hips keep kissing and skip her love box to her thighs. Kiss her thighs going upwards and slowly introduce your tongue. As someone mentioned, don't bite! Only a few can take it. And then...lick her on the spot!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Tease her by kissing around it first.

    Start off gentle.

    Just like when you are being stimulated, don't go flying out of the gates then slow down, you want to BUILD intensity.

    Explore her entirely with your tongue, this should be fun.

    As she gets more excited, focus more and more on the clit. I'd suggest you try to read from her movement whether she wants firmer or lighter pressure. A lot of girls like light apparently, but my wife likes firm pressure. She gives me subtle indicators of this like bucking her hips in the air, grabbing my hair and crushing me with her thighs.

  • I'd recommend you take a look at this guide, it was written by a girl and has helped a lot of people she gives you an exact breakdown of everything to do and how well it works on girls https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KLRLMKO

    Hope this helps ! :)

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  • It's an ice cream cone with a cherry on top. Lick and suck accordingly.

  • lick the clit...

  • It's not THAT difficult! She will tell you what works best. And don't say "have to give"...It is WONDERFUL to be able to get Up Close & Personal with her privates. My experience says that clitoral stimulation is what most females like best...but...responders here on GAG have sometimes said that they like more including licking around the vaginal opening...repeating motions or tongue fluttering on the clitoris should get the job done..again let her help guide u...

  • link this link is pretty good

    Try fingering while eating her out, stimulate her clit and the g-spot at the same time

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    • I don't think the link is working but go on unclemelon.com and click on the cunnilingus link

  • lick her clit a lot and randomly put your tongue inside her. and DON'T bite her.

    • i thought you were supposed to bite the clit =P

    • omg if someone would do that to me I would sue him.

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