How to encourage him to go down on me more?

I love having my boyfriend go down on me, but he rarely does it. I am clean, hygienic, shaved but what else can I do to encourage him to do it more? I am also not selfish on the oral front either in his case.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • tricky. I think your best bet is to not hide any sign of enjoyment when he does go down on you. Guys like to know that they are good at sex, so if you show him that he is great at going down on you, he may want to do it more often.

    But this could also backfire. You don't want him to think he is better at going down on you than he is at regular sex. We like to know we are good at sexual things, but we primarily like to know that our penis is effective. After you've shown him enough times that you enjoy what he does with his tongue, then you can propose the idea of him doing it more often. You should say something along the lines of "Sometimes I'm too tired to handle your penis, but want sex. Would you go down on me when that happens?" This tells him that his d*** is effective - even possibly too effective. He should agree to those conditions. Then it's just a matter of 'acting' tired but horny when you want him to go down on you.

    • wow, thanks for BA. I wanted to add, though: if you are confident that he is already very certain that he does a great job with his tongue, you can skip that whole thing and go right to the proposal.

    • No worries :) And I think he lacks self confidence in himself as I am fairly secure with my sexual wants. I have assured him that I find it amazing what he does and that it turns me on hugely. Just I think that It will be a time thing and that I will have to be patient and just gently guide him to it :) Thanks!

  • Use positive reinforcement! Tell him, both when he's doing it, and afterward, how great it feels when he does it to you, and tell him how it makes you desire him more and makes you want to please him more. He'll do the math and realize that if he is making you happy, you're going to try to make him even happier, so it's Win/Win.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Next time he goes down on you just tell him how much you enjoy it in that sex voice. My ex used to be like that and one night I told him when he was eating me that I loved when he did it and how he got me off so hard. After that I didn't have to ask for anything

    • Yeah I will give that a go! Just its getting him the mood though to get to the point of him eating me out! Our sex life is a little dull if I'm honest! Any tips how to make a guy eat your p**** without forcing him?lol

    • If I feel like it's lacking I spice it up a bit. I'll send a picture of me getting out of the shower and send something like, I can't wait to get you home or Just wait til I get my hands on you. If I want to be eaten that night I'll send another picture and send something like I can't get the other night out of my head. You made me come so hard just eating me, can you show me how you did that again?

  • Some guy doesn't like that. It's not because of you. But maybe he doesn't know if you really like it, or not. I think you should just talk to him about that, so you can say to him that you enjoy it a lot, and he will tell you what's wrong !

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  • Body Chocolate is fun.

  • He must be made - that's my favorite bit !

    • Hah unfortunately not made up... I find its the only way to receive an orgasm though!

    • I love it.. Think my record is 2 hours !

    • Haha bet that was nice ;)

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  • Spread some strawberries and whip cream all over and pour some chocolate syrup on it. That's what I do to my girl. It tastes so much better.

  • Tell him that you really love it, that you'll return the favor!

  • Most guys I know hate doing it and see it as a chore. I personally love it and love doing it regardless of hair or anything. You can do one of two things. Stop asking for it, and he may feel bad about it? Or, tell him that you are absolutely not returning the favor and he'll shape up fast!