How to enjoy rear-entry sex more?

[Anonymous]

I kind of just zone out while a guy plows me when we're doing it doggystyle or any rear-entry position. At best, I don't feel that much. At worst, it hurts. How can I accommodate guy's favorite position without thinking, "get it over with, already?" I'm plenty experienced -- I just seem to have a shallow cervix or something.

[l-hedoniste]

Doggystyle--not for you. Do something else. At the very least, accommodate him for a bit but tell him straight-up, "doggy really doesn't work for me, so I can't do it for that long".

[Asker]

Denying him men's favorite position isn't gonna win any points!

[l-hedoniste]

Men's favorite position? Says who? *His* favorite position, maybe, but any decent partner will be flexible. Remember, the sex is supposed to work for you both, right?

[Asker]

Most polls list doggy as men's favorite position ... Why not? More of his d*** is in, he gets to go as hard as possible, and he gets to feel macho and dominant. I just wish it wasn' t so awkward feeling for me.

[l-hedoniste]

You don't pick a position by poll. You pick it by what works best for you. Never mind what other people think, you have an audience of exactly two, you and him. No one else matters.

[Asker]

Ya, but keeping the guy happier in bed is much more important. It's not like we're only doing it one way, but giving him enough of his favorite position is a must do.

[sixstring]

Let him do a reach-around, or play with your cit yourself.

[Asker]

What to do about having the shallow cervix? I hate how it feels when it is touched...

[kheserthorpe]

You might do better with a position where its not so deep. i.e. lying on your stomach with your legs together. You'd be getting the front-wall (hopefully g-spot) stimulation, he gets the rear entry position he wants, and _hopefully_ its not hitting your cervix.

[Asker]

Isn't pounding her as deep & as hard as possible kinda the point, lol?

[BunsOsteel22]

your wording made me think you were talking about anal. lol. think of a happy place?

[Chrissy1986]

either get him to rub your clit or do it yourself makes a world of difference

[Anonymous]

Is it that you would rather have closenes? Would you enjoy it in a spooning side position over doggy? Spooning sex is much more intimate, close and he can play with your clit, breasts or hair. Reason I ask is I'm not a huge fan of doggy, but spooning is much more meaningful and rewarding to both it seems from personal experience.