Personally, if it was me I'd stick with the bj because it's working for both of you every time. Why stop a good thing or try to change it. Obviously you're really good at giving a bj and he's reacting to you in a big way by getting really hard, just what you want him to do. If anything, why not just vary how you give him head. Some times we rough and other times more gentle but most of time like you're wanting to literally suck his come out of him. Just have fun with the bj because he's really liking what you're doing. If you try to change a good thing, what you do might not work as good as it was before, and then it might be hard to get back to the flow of how you used to do it. I give my boyfriend a bj almost every time before we have sex. Sometimes I'll make him come just because I feel like it when we have time and then later do it again and then we'll have sex, and other times we'll go right into having sex.
You definitely don't have to give a guy a bj to get him hard. If you do he must have a problem of some kind or you don't excite him very much. I'm pretty sure the reason he tells you that is so that he'll get some head out of you. Most girls I'm sure if they have to do anything to get their guy's hard is to start giving him a mini hand-job.. like play with it some. Play with it some by doing some foundling, squeezing and up and down stuff. That'll do it for most guys I'm sure. ha! Of course, you still do the bj thing before you fu*ck whenever you wanna do it extra special. That way he'll appreciate that much more.
Yeah but he hates handjobs^_^
No doubt when you give him a bj all the time. Try not giving him anything and see how fast he'll start liking it. Why are you even giving him the choice? He should be able to get hard on his own really, so he should consider himself pretty lucky whenever you give one. Ask him what other options there are and see what he says.
You simply reply to his order with "No Babe, you get me wet. If you aren't hard by the time you get me off the first time, we will make you a doctor's appointment and find out what's wrong with your dick."
Seriously, it does not sound as if you are receiving any foreplay. It seems to be all about pleasing him. That's fine once in a while, but sex is a 2 way street. If he isn't getting you hot, then don't waste the effort on him.
Thanks. :]
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